A Lightening Of The Weight On My Shoulders
This past weekend we had dinner at the home of a family who has four young children, one of whom is severely autistic. I cannot even imagine the dedication and selflessness that it takes to care for this child. It completely humbles me. Seeing this child was a lesson for me to remember that no matter how difficult I think my problems are, there are always others with problems that will make mine pale in comparison.
Before a child is born, maybe first-time parents should take time out of their schedules and care for a special needs child for just one day. The reality they encounter is sure to leave a lasting impression on them.
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Such a simple suggestion holds so much power...
One of my closest friends has three young sons -- the two oldest are both autistic, although not severely. However, add in therapies, tutors, special needs social programs, behavioral problems, physical problems, etc., a mother who works full-time, a mother who does not complain but just states matter-of-factly her sons' issues, a mother who spends time seeking out resources to better her children's situations and a mother who is still able to mother her non-autistic son, be a wife, be a marathon trainer, and you have some PACKAGE DEAL!
Even after their child is born I would recommend they volunteer to help special needs children. It teaches their children compassion and caring, that the value of a person is not centered on how 'perfect' they are. My brother was born with Down Syndrome way back in 1958. He was one of the best blessings that G-d bestowed on me, as well as our family! He was killed in 1988 but I am grateful to G-d for every year we had with him. And, my son has a heart for those special people G-d has blessed this world with. ~C
Simple Jew do you think Jewish communities (from Chassidic to modern) are set up to help families with children who are less than perfect?
Thank you for your question, while I really could not provide a definitive answer, I do know that there are many fine organizations within the Jewish community to help these children such as HASC.
http://www.hasc.net/
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