Friday, August 31, 2007

Guest Posting From Chabakuk Elisha - Leadership

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Recently there was a conversation on this blog where the topic of contemporary frum leadership came up. It's a sticky issue, and we are warned by Chazal in multiple places to use extreme caution before disregarding or disobeying our leaders. In our history we've had many examples of chachomim, Tzadikim, with ruach hakodesh, and we know that Hashem guides true chachomim with Siyata Dishmaya for the sake of Klal Yisroel. We are told that the chachomim of every generation are like Moshe and Aharon in their generation; and in Parshas Shoftim we are told to listen to the chachomim even if we think they're wrong:

"According to the teaching that they teach you and the judgment that they will tell you, so shall you do; you shall not deviate from the word that they will say to you, right or left." (Devarim 17:9-11).

Rashi comments on the words "right or left:

"Even if they say that your right is left and your left is right; how much more so if they tell you that your right is right and your left is left."

This became a rallying cry for the old Aguda in Europe with the catchphrase, "Daas Torah."

But, the question is, how do we apply that? Does that mean that we must go like sheep no matter what, even if we find some things that the rabbonim say extremely troubling? What about the times when the guidance has been poor, or our leaders were shown to have been wrong? What about when rabbonim become enablers for terrible actions (as has been pointed out so often in the blogosphere)? What about if rabbonim don't seem to understand the plight of many Jews? What about the passing campaigns that come and go with all kinds of signatures that just seem so silly and never get to the big issues, or are later exposed as based on faulty information? What about the political maneuvers and pettiness that goes on? What about when the chachomim erode their credibility and people have begun to tune them out and laugh at the latest pronouncements? Does G-d really put us all on notice that we must follow the chachomim in all cases no matter what?

Rabbi Hershel Schechter tells the story that while Herman Wouk taught in YU, he had said that his masterpiece "The Caine Mutiny" was based on that Rashi in Shoftim: That no matter what happens, we are required to respect the chain of command and follow our leadership. To which, Rav Schechter said, they had to inform him that this is not pshat in Rashi.

The simple pshat and the simple meaning of this Rashi and Chazal's warnings doesn't mean that we're required to check our brain at the door whenever rabbonim speak – because it really depends. It depends on the rov, and it depends on the situation, and it depends on the subject matter. When Rashi and Chazal tell us not to deviate from the psak, they are talking about halachic matters. If rabbonim say something in the realm of issur v'heter, if the rov says something is blood, or if something kosher, or if something is assur on Shabbos, we must be sure not to deviate from the psak. If we come to beis din with an argument and the rov rules in favor of a certain party, then that's the psak – we must not deviate. Things that fall under the expertise of the rabbonim we are, without a doubt, obligated to follow. This is the structure of Yiddishkeit, and it has always been so; so, even if I were to disagree in those cases, I remain obligated to follow the psak of the experts who tell me that I'm wrong.

And while we are taught that everything is contained in Torah, most rabbonim in our time have very limited knowledge in many fields; a rov isn't trained to be a scientist, historian, social worker, philosopher, art critic, musician, linguist, engineer, financial planner, doctor or technical expert. And while he may be a good guy, even a smart guy, his field of expertise is Shas and Poskim, and those are the areas that he carries the most weight. Should the rov also be a high level doctor, we would be likely to hold his medical opinions in high regard – but not because he's a rov or a gadol, but because he's a medical expert.

We hope that rabbonim consult with experts before they pasken about the halachic merits of a specific matter (and we assume that they do), therefore, in matters of cold halacha, we must defer to the rabbonim and gedolim inasmuch as this is clearly their territory, but when we are talking about issues that are outside their expertise, outside the psak halacha of issur v'heter, it's another story.

Of course, we must maintain respect for them, and take care not to be flippant about rabbinic proclomations, but if Rabbonim say something or act in a way that is nonsensical or if they have lost touch with the realties and the "amcha" Jew or they don't recognize or (aren't fully aware of) certain realities, if they are playing politics or covering up heinous acts, that's not the case Rashi is talking about. That's not the simple meaning of "Daas Torah." In fact, the contemporary concept of "Daas Torah" was a political slogan that the Aguda used for elections and politics in the Polish government, and its current application is no more than the misapplied concept of a Chassidic Rebbe into the common thinking for even non-chassidic Jews.

A Chossid / Rebbe relationship is another matter entirely, and that's not what we're talking about here. Chassidim follow their Rebbe no matter what and no matter when; that's Chassidus, and it is legitimate, but it's also an entirely different matter. Outside of a Chassidic Rebbe and his Chossid, there are many examples where things are far from simple, and we need a good, honest, caring confidant to speak to – and only such a person is able to help us grow and find happiness and success in those matters.

We have two obligations: Aseh lecha rav, v'kaneh lecha chaver (Make for yourself a rov, and acquire for yourself a friend). Every Jew needs a rov, he needs to recognize rabbinical authority for halachic matters, but in areas where the rov is not as up to speed, on matters where the rov may be lacking, there you need a good friend.

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Fundraiser For Breslov Yeshiva


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Parshas HaShavua B'Blog

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"Just An Illusion"

Unique

Every Jew must know and think that he is unique in the world, and there was never anyone exactly like him; had there been someone just like him, there would have been no need for him. Indeed, every single person is someone new in the world and it is his duty to improve all his ways, until all of Israel have attained perfection.

(Beis Aharon)

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Courageous Hitbodedut - Part III


Excerpt from Where Earth and Heaven Kiss: A Guide To Rebbe Nachman's Path Of Meditation by Rabbi Ozer Bergman:

The Aftereffects

The peace you gain as a result of courageous hitbodedut won't go unnoticed. Others will feel it as well, without your having to say a word to them. Your courage to become stronger can have an amazing effect on other people.

As a result of one courageous hitbodedut that a friend of mind had, he called an old acquaintance of his to say, "I thought of the fight we had and how we stopped collaborating. I want you to know that I was going through some rough times. It wasn't your fault." His acquaintance had watched several of his other friendships go sour in a brief span of time, and was despondent. It meant the world to him to hear someone tell him that it wasn't his fault. My friend told me, "The hitbodedut that got me to make that phone call was worth a million bucks."

Some people justify not having courageous hitbodedut by saying, "I'll just move on," or "It's enough that I know about it." "It might upset her" is another way to avoid facing a session of courageous hitbodedut. Rebbe Nachman teaches that doing hitbodedut only in your head isn't enough. It's in the speaking that the transformation occurs.

Your courage also might be contagious. Imagine how fearless other might become once they've seen your example. Your courage can ripple out and change the world. People have told me, "You know, after you called me, I started to think. So I picked up the phone and called..."

The Risks

However, there are no guarantees that the immediate results will be exactly what you pray for. Even when the ultimate outcome is positive, it may be accompanied by a calamitous price, perhaps one worse than you feared. If that happens, remember that the true outcome is your Partner's doing. You had been squeezing the calamity into a box in order to avoid it. Now it's time to trust God and let Him run the universe as He will. As Rabbi Akiva said, "Everything the Merciful One does is for the best" (Berakhot 60b).

Perhaps this is a good time to say that having courageous hitbodedut can lead to bankruptcy, prison, death or even worse. The spiritual warrior realizes this, puts truth and love above all, and accepts the outcome with grace. You're fully responsible for any actions you take as a result of reading this book. In fact, that's kind of the point! (If acting on your courageous hitbodedut could have legal or medical consequences, I recommend consulting a lawyer, doctor or other appropriate professional first so you know what you are getting into.)

There are things that should not be said to other people, even if they should be said to God. If and when you decide to clear the air, take care to minimize others' hurt feelings. You have a responsibility to speak with compassion and to speak responsibly. Take responsibility for what you have done. Avoid blaming.

No matter how compassionately or gently you share the truth, the other person may feel pain. That may be unpleasant or gut wrenching, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Maybe that's meant to be. If you speak honestly and not vindictively, it usually does more good than harm. It's important to note that, "It might upset him/her" ranks high on the all-time list of excuses for wimping out.

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Part II - Here

"Irrigating Their Daled Amos" - Continuing A Discussion

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Mixing Different Traditions and the Light of Moshiach

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Higher

You toil in mitzvot in the lowest world, but your Torah study elevates them to a higher world. The purer the intention and thought with which you learn, the higher your mitzvot will be elevated.

(Ben Ish Chai)

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

And Overtake You

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Degel Machaneh Ephaim, Parshas Ki Savo:

And these blessings will come upon you and overtake you… (Devarim 28:2)

What is the significance of the redundant phrase, "these blessings will come upon you and overtake you"? Wouldn't it have been more appropriate to say, "you will reach and attain these blessings"? People are shortsighted. They fail to discern what is beneficial to them, and often they will run away from true blessings. That is what David Hamelech had in mind when he said, "May only goodness and kindness pursue me." (Tehillim 23:6). He meant to say, "Many times I don't pursue goodness and kindness. In my folly I even try to elude them because I fail to recognize them for what they are. Therefore I pray that goodness and kindness may pursue me and overtake me." This too is implied in the above-mentioned verse, "…these blessings will come upon you and overtake you…" Even if in your ignorance you try to avoid these blessings, they will run after you and reach you.

Courageous Hitbodedut - Part II


Excerpt from Where Earth and Heaven Kiss: A Guide To Rebbe Nachman's Path Of Meditation by Rabbi Ozer Bergman:

Why Dig Up The Past?

Shouldn't it be buried? Isn't the past just the past? The answer to that depends on your feeling about digging it up again. If you have absolutely no negative reaction when you sit down and think about what happened - assuming that you've already honestly appraised what you did and its outcome - then you may not need to readdress it in hitbodedut. On the other hand, if you;re immediately plagued by feelings of guilt, anger, sadness or love - any unexpressed emotion - then give it some time in hitbodedut.

Your sessions of courageous hitbodedut will show you were your barriers are, where you're most frightened.

It certainly easier to stay in a cocoon. Yet if you are serious about making progress, sooner rather than later you'll have to beat your wings against the wall of your cocoon in order to explore new realms of your joyous flowing self, to live unafraid, to be you.

Skeletons In Your Closet

Courageous hitbodedut is the best way to rid yourself of another pariah: the skeleton in your closet. Everyone has at least one. A "skeleton in the closet" is anything you did in the past that you feel was wrong, that gnaws at you, or that you would like the world to never know about. You can continue walking chained to your skeleton, weighed down by your heavy fears. Or you can choose to be courageous, to come clean and decide that living an honest Jewishness is the most important thing in your life. If you are genuinely willing to risk everything you hold dear to tell the truth, your growth and peace will be unsurpassed.

Let's start with some easy examples: What do you regret, but you have never apologized for? What are you still feeling guilty about? Who are you avoiding because you feel uncomfortable about some past interaction? What are you afraid that people will discover about you?

Think about it. Is there anything about you or what you have done that you want to hide from? Pause now for five minutes and make an inventory. If it's not Shabbat or a Jewish holiday, put it in writing. It's worth it.

Then there are the more difficult examples: Have you ever stolen something valuable? Have you had an affair that is still secret? Are you terrified that others will find out you're not the wonderful person they think you are? Did you ever exploit anyone? What lies have you told that you pray will never be exposed? You know what you have been carrying around; add it to the list.

No matter how small or how big, you can be free of it. If you find the matter too big to clean up right now, or if the fear has to great a hold on you, it can be handled a couple of ways. It can all be over five minutes from now - albeit with shallow breath and sweaty hands - or it can be a process.

When you clear something up, it always works out in the long run. The more fearful you are, the greater the potential for growth. If the consequences are not to your liking, then there's a chance for even more growth. So get on with it. Identify a skeleton. Start with a small one to build your muscles, if you like. Or start with a big one and work down. Make your lists (the ones mentioned above) - and start talking.

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Part I - Here

Part III - continued tomorrow [here]

Wednesday Links

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Zchus Avos Yogen Aleinu: Tikunei Zohar

Beyond Teshuva: Do As I Do

Always

The knowledge of the purpose and goal of life is not just a fact that one hears about, writes down, and then puts away in storage, cleaning it from dust only when Pesach comes. This knowledge must be sensed, lived, and breathed, so that one is totally in harmony with it.

(Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh)

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Courageous Hitbodedut - Part I


Excerpt from Where Earth and Heaven Kiss: A Guide To Rebbe Nachman's Path Of Meditation by Rabbi Ozer Bergman:

Courageous Hitbodedut

Courageous hitbodedut is the most important thing you can do for your spiritual growth. It can free you from your demons and improve your relationship with others.

Your relationship with God is greatly affected by your relationship with your fellow human beings (Avot 2:1, 3:13). Use courageous hitbodedut to improve your relationship with others - and with Him.

What is courageous hitbodedut? It's the hitbodedut you don't want to have. In fact, your best hitbodedut is probably the one you haven't even thought of having.

Think for a minute. What's the hardest hitbodedut you can imagine having? What's holding you back from having it? When you think you know the answer, keep reading.

The kind of hitbodedut we're talking about is the one that can transform your relationship with God - or with another person, perhaps even with yourself. It may fee you from bad habits and bad traits. It will certainly clear the air.

Would you like some examples of what it take guts to say? I thought you'd never ask!

- "I've hated you for leaving me."

- "I stole $2,000 from you twenty years ago."

- "I don't have a license to practice, and would like to become legitimate."

- "We've never said, 'I love you' in this family. I love you."

- "Will you marry me?"

- "I'm not enjoying our love life."

- "I had an affair five years ago."

- "I really gave you a hard time at school, and I'm sorry I hurt you."

- "God, I'd like to feel You acknowledge me for all the hard work I do."

- "I am angry at how You treat Your children."

To know if you're ready for some courageous hitbodedut, here are a few clues to look for: How is your relationship with God? Your partner? Family? Co-workers?

If your relationship(s) is less than wonderful, chances are you're holding back something - something that, once expressed, could allow your self-awareness and Jewishness to grow.

Here are other clues that you need some courageous hitbodedut: You're angry at or avoiding someone. You're ashamed of something you did or scared that people will find out about it. You're worried about the consequences of such a hitbodedut session or feel uncomfortable thinking about it. Another important clue is that the trigger for such a session of hitbodedut happened a long time ago, but still resurfaces in your mind every now and then, maybe as you are reading this.

The best clue is that you don't want to have hitbodedut about that! This is a sure sign that you're avoiding something. In a nutshell, you probably haven't had the courageous hitbodedut yet because you're afraid of the outcome you imagine will result: loss, discomfort or change.

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© Copyright 2007 Breslov Research Institute

Part II - continued tomorrow [here]

"I Really Didn't Want To"

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Giving Mussar - Hard or Not?

Return To The Cornfield

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A Bas Noach's Road to Hashem

A More Direct Approach To Joy

There are two ways to eliminate worry. One is to refuse to entertain such thoughts, just as we should reject depressing thoughts. Then, by avoiding worry and sadness, we can experience joy from doing mitzvos. There is, however, a more positive method, and one that is ultimately more effective, since it eliminates the very source of our worries. The best method is to strengthen our emuna in Hashem and our belief in Hashgacha Pratis. This is also a more direct approach to joy, since faith itself is a source of joy and vitality.

(Rabbi Yaakov Meir Shechter)

Monday, August 27, 2007

The Photography Of A Simple Jew's Father - Part II


Guest Posting From A Talmid - Tehillim


One whose soul longs to attach itself to Hashem, with praises, should attach himself to Sefer Tehilim. Our Rabbis Z’L have already said that Dovid Hamelech prayed that his songs should be recited in Batei Kenisios and Batei Midroshos… Blessed is the man that says Tehilim with shira, zimra, simcha and kavonas halev, not like those in our generation, who recite it hurriedly, without kavana or understanding, and err in the reading… Better a little with kavana than a lot without kavana. One should say, daily without fail, Tehilim divided according to the days of the month. (Shlah)

One who regularly recites Tehilim eliminates all types of misfortunes and terrible tragedies from himself, his household, his family and his whole generation, and brings upon them every form of shefa, good blessings and successes. And there is nothing to shield against Mazikim, like the recital of Kaddish after Tehilim. (Pele Yoetz)

The Redak says that Dovid HaMelech davened for every need that Klal Yisroel will require until Moshiach comes, including that the sick be healed, the healthy shouldn’t get sick, that livelihood should be blessed and to nullify all harsh decrees etc. And when Moshiach comes and there will be no more harsh decrees, there will be no need to say Tehilim anymore, as it says in Tehilim (72, 20) כָּלּוּ תְפִלּוֹת דָּוִד בֶּן-יִשָׁי, the prayers of Dovid, son of Yishai, are finished. (Meor Veshemesh, Mispatim)

The word תהלים is from the loshon of the words (Iyov 41, 10) תָּהֶל אוֹר, “flash forth light”, because in תהלים there is only a great light; there is no power for “din” to be mekatreg, there is pure rachamim and it “sweetens” everything. Therefore, the Songs of Dovid our King are called תהלים, through which it’s possible to work wonders, and there is found no Satan and no bad mishap. (Noam Elimelech, Likutei Shoshana)

The Tzemach Tzedek says that Tehilim breaks all the barriers and ascends before the Adon Olamim, and works wonders with chesed and rachamim. (Kovetz Michtavim)

One who recites Tehilim every day is assured that he is a “Ben Olam Habah”. (Tehila L’Dovid)

Through Tehilim, the final redemption is brought closer. (Pardes Menachem, Shir Hashirim)

Baba Sali would say that every Jew is required to complete Sefer Tehilim at least once a month, and that there is special significance and power in the words of Dovid HaMelech and they can work wonders. (Baba Sali, by Rav Eliyahu Alfasi)

As if Dovid HaMelech Himself is reciting the Words

David HaMelech wrote Tehilim with Ruach Hakodesh. (Likutei Mohoran 156) When one recites Tehilim, it is as great as if Dovid HaMelech, himself, is saying it. The Ruach HaKodesh is still in the words of Tehilim. When you recite Tehilim, your own breath arouses the Holy Breath in these words. Therefore, when you recite Tehilim, it is as if Dovid Hamelech himself is reciting it. (Sicos HaRan 98) In the Yehi Rotzon before Tehilim, we ask that our recital of Tehilim should be as if Dovid HaMelech himself is reciting it.

Tehilim Includes the Whole Torah

Dovid HaMelach put together Tehilim in five books, corresponding to the five books of the Torah. We find that the whole Torah is included and hidden in Tehilim. When Dovid HaMelech would suffer, he would look in the letters and words of that tzarah in the Torah and compose a chapter of Tehilim, which was revealed to him through the light of the Torah. And each chapter of Tehilim certainly corresponds to a chapter in the Torah. (Degel Machane Ephraim, Chaye Sarah)

The Yehi Rotzon, after reciting Tehilim, mentions this concept. It says the first book corresponding to Bereishis, the second corresponding to Shemos and so on.

Getting Rid of Mikatrigim

The author of Shaarei Orah writes that the main minhag of reciting Tehilim is order to chase away the mekatrigim before tefila, so that our prayers can go up without any kitrug. (Levush)

Don’t let the daily set time of reciting Tehilim be light in your eyes, because Tehilim cuts up the klipos so they shouldn’t be mekatreg before davening. And through reciting Tehilim, come many salvations to the world. (Yesod Yosef)

Yiras Hashem

The study of Tehilim brings one to Yiras Hashem. (Maharsha)

Teshuva

One who wants merit doing teshuva, should regularly recite Tehilim, because reciting Tehilim is mesugal for teshuva. That is why we see people very involved in reciting Tehilim in Elul and Aseres Yemei Teshuva. There are many obstacles to teshuva. Many people don’t even feel a need to do teshuvah, and they can die without ever doing teshuva, chas v’Shalom. Some want to do teshuva, but don’t know how to go about this, as there are 50 gates to teshuvah, and they don’t know which one to use. Others may find the proper gate of teshuva but find it locked. Through saying Tehilim one can get through all these obstacles. He will desire to do teshuva, will find the proper gate to use and open it if it’s closed. This is alluded to in the first posuk of Shemos וְאֵלֶּ׳ה שְׁמוֹ׳ת בְּנֵ׳י יִשְׂרָאֵ׳ל הַבָּאִי׳ם מִצְרָיְמָ׳ה אֵ׳ת יַעֲקֹ׳ב אִי׳שׁ וּבֵית׳וֹ בָּאוּ The last letters spell תהילים תשובה and the names of the 12 tribes have 49 letters, representing the 49 gates of teshuva. (See inside why not the 50th gate) (Likutei Mohoran II, 73 - I highly recommend seeing this inside.)

Golus Mitzraim includes in it every other golus and Mitzraim is also the loshon of “tzar”. Through Torah and teshuvah we can be redeemed from golus. Now, everyone is capable of doing teshuvah, however, if it is hard for one who is not a talmid chochom to learn Torah. Therefore, Hashem assured Dovid Hamelech that Sefer Tehilim will be considered like learning Negaim and Oholos (which are very difficult subjects). This, that one can do teshuva through Tehilim, is alluded to in the last letters of each word of the first posuk of Shemos, which spell ״ ותשובה ״ תהלים: וְאֵלֶּ׳ה שְׁמוֹ׳ת בְּנ׳ֵי יִשְׂרָאֵ׳ל הַבָּאִי׳ם מִצְרָיְמָ׳ה אֵ׳ת יַעֲק׳ב אִי׳שׁ וּבֵית׳וֹ בָּא׳ו. (Igra D’Kala, Shemos)

When Klal Yisroel recites Tehilim with a broken heart, Hakodosh Boruch Hu forgives all their sins. (Mayim Rabbim)

Ziknei Torah

The Mishna in Kinnim (3:6) says: “Ziknei Am Ha’aretz, as long as they get older, their minds get more confused…but Ziknei Torah are not like that, instead, as long as they get older, their minds become more settled…”

This means that if one is smart and well versed in Shas and Poskim, but he is attached to earthly desires, that is Ziknei Am Ha’aretz, and on this it says there minds get more confused. However, if one is only capable of reciting Tehilim, with truth and sincerity, (he doesn’t have the capabilities to learn more, but is not attached to earthly desires), that is called Ziknei Torah and as they get older their minds get more settled. (Shearis Yisroel, Shaar Hiskasrus 7:2)

Finding Oneself in Tehilim

The main part of reciting Tehilim is to say it on oneself – each person should find himself in each chapter of Tehilim. All the wars that Dovid Hamelech begged Hashem to save him from – we should have in mind our war with the yetzer harah and his army. (Likutei Mohoran 101,125)

Everyone should find themselves inside the words of Tehilim. That’s why it says at the end of Ashrei: וִיבָרֵךְ כָּל-בָּשָׂר, שֵׁם קָדְשׁוֹ--לְעוֹלָם וָעֶד - all flesh will bless You, in any situation we may be in. (Yismach Yisroel, Ekev)

Unless one is very fluent with the translation of the words of Tehilim, I highly recommend the Artscroll Interlinear Tehilim. This is a great way to “find oneself” in Tehilim, and paying attention to the meaning of the words is a whole new and fulfilling experience

Pidyon

If one learns Tehilim with kavana it’s a pidyon, redemption, from all types of disasters and tragedies. Perhaps, that’s why Dovid composed 150 chapters equal to the gematria of פדיון. Through the studying of Tehilim with kavan one can redeem himself from all types of misfortunes. (Magen V’shemesh, quoting Emek Hamelech)

Fulfilling the Whole Torah

The first letters of תּ׳ֻכּוּ לְ׳רַגְלֶךָ י׳ִשָּׂא מִ׳דַּבְּרֹתֶיךָ spell תילם and the next words areתּוֹרָה צִוָּה-לָנוּ מֹשֶׁה מוֹרָשָׁה קְהִלַּת יַעֲקֹב alluding that if one recites Tehilim everyday, it’s as if he fulfilled the whole entire Torah. (Rabbeinu Ephraim, V’zos Habracha) (Note: There are different ways that Tehilim is spelled.)

Meriting being תחת כסא הכבוד

The last letters of וְהִגַּדְתֶּם לְאָבִי אֶ׳ת-כָּ׳ל-כְּבוֹד׳ִי בְּמִצְרַיִ׳ם (Vayigash 45, 13) spell תלים alluding that whoever recites Tehilim daily will merit being תחת כסא הכבוד (Rabbeinu Ephraim, Vayigash)

Segula for Rainfall

Reciting Tehilim is a segula for rainfall; תהלם stands for ל׳מטר ה׳שמים ת׳שתה מ׳ים (Sefer Hamidos, Segula)

Meriting to go to Yerushalayim

One who regularly recites Tehilim will merit going up to Eretz Yisroel and Yerushalayim, which is the city of David HaMelech. (Tehila L’Dovid)

The Whole Sefer Tehilim without Interuption

For any need one might have, one should recite the whole Sefer Tehilim, from beginning to end, without any interruption. Reb Pinchas Koritzer says that one shouldn’t even say the Yehi Rotzon that is often said between the five books of Tehilim. (Pele Yoetz, Igra D’Pirka, Imrei Pinchas)

The Rebbe, Reb Zusia of Anipoli says that this is alluded to by the posuk in Tehilim (106, 2), מִי-יְמַלֵּל גְּבוּרוֹת יְהוָה יַשְׁמִיעַ כָּל-תְּהִלָּתוֹ. The word יְמַלֵּל is used to mean rubbing in order to pull off, as in Beitzah 12b. The posuk can now be read as: “Who pulls off the gevuros, the harsh judgements, of Hashem? He who makes all His praise heard”. (By reciting the whole Sefer Tehilim)

Reb Moshe of Savran says that “without interruption” doesn’t just mean speaking out, but even distracting oneself so that his heart and mouth are not in sync.

Parnasa

It is a segula for parnasa to recite any three chapters of Tehilim, specifically, after davening. (Reb Avrohom Moshe of Raspasha-Pshadvars)

Weapon against the Yetzer Hora

Reciting Sefer Tehilim three times in one day is like sword and spear against the yetzer hara. (Reb Menachem Mendel of Rimanov)

Like a Fast from Shabbos to Shabbos

There is a kabbala from the Rebbe, Reb Elimelech of Lizensk, that one who recites Sefer Tehilim three times in one day is considered as if he fasted from Shabbos to Shabbos.

Early Morning Tehilim

The last letters of צִיצִ׳ת עַ׳ל-כַּנְפֵ׳י בִגְדֵיהֶ׳ם spell תלים, because it is a choice mitzvah, to wrap oneself in tzitzis, early, and learn Tehilim. (Rabbein Ephraim, Vayishlach)

Tikun HaKlali

(I cannot do this subject justice here, but a post on Tehilim would not be complete without some mention of Tikun HaKlali.)

For mikra layla, one should say 10 chapters of Tehilim on the day this happens, because the recital of Tehilim has the power to release the emission from the klipa that took it, because תהלים is the gematria of לילי׳ת with the 5 letters of her name. She is the one that controls the wasted seed. One should have in mind that תהלים is the gematria of 485, which is equal to the two names, א־ל אלקים, spelled out - אלף למד אלף למד הי יוד מם. Through these two names, the wasted drops are released from the klipas. The specific ten chapters to be said are: 16, 32, 41, 42, 59, 77, 90, 105, 137, 150. (After an emission, preferably one should immerse in the mikva first. If not he should say it anyway.) After one says the Tikun HaKlali, he shouldn’t fear anymore, because the sin has certainly been rectified through this, and through this tikun of this sin Moshiach will come to gather the exiles. (Likutei Mohoran 205, II 92)

Reb Nachman said that of all his Torah he is sure but of this one he is even more certain. (Sichos HaRan 141)

Reb Nachman promised in front of two witnesses that after his passing, whoever will come to his grave, give tzedaka for his neshama and recite Tikun HaKlali, he will pull him out of Gehinom by his peyos, but from now on he has to accept upon himself not to go back to his former ways, chas v’Shalom. (Chaye Mohoran 41)

Elul

It is brought down many places to finish the whole Sefer Tehilim at least 2 times before Rosh Hashana, since the gematria of כפר, forgive, is 300, and there are 150 chapters of Tehilim, and to finish it a third time before Yom Kippur.

There is a minhag that the Baal HaTanya received from the Magid of Mezritch, who received it from the Baal Shem Tov, who received it from his teacher, that from 1 Elul one should say 3 chapters of Tehilim everyday (1 Elul-chapters 1-3, 2 Elul chapters 4-6, etc.) On Yom Kippur one should say 115-123 before Kol Nidrei, 124-132 before going to sleep, 133-141 after Mussaf and 142-150 after Neilah. (Tehilim Tehilah L’Dovid)

Chapter 119

There are eight pesukim for each letter in Chapter 119. There is a minhag to recite the letters making up the name of a person when praying at a grave. You would take the name of the deceased and read each section of Chapter 119 corresponding to the letters of the name than the letters for בן/בת, then the father’s name and then the letters of נשמה after the name.

For a sick person the same thing is done except the mothers name is used and after the name the words קרע שטן are added (instead of נשמה).

Sholom Bayis

A segula for sholom bayis is to spell out the words שלום הבית with chapter 119, everyday. (Segulas Yisroel)

Keeping Out of Gehinom

In Tehilim 25 each posuk starts with a different letter of the aleph beis, except the letters בו׳ק, which are the gematria of גיהנום. Therefore reciting chapter 25 every day is a segula not to go to Gehinom. (Found in many editions of Tehilim)

Woman in Labor

Arizal says that Chapter 20 is good to say for mercy on a woman in labor. It has 9 pesukim corresponding to 9 months of labor and 70 words corresponding to the 70 pains of childbirth. (Divrei Torah 3:30) The Chida says that one should say it 12 times and then say a special Yehi Rotzon. (Avodas HaKodesh)

Chapter 100 is a segula for a woman in difficult labor. The first letters of the opening words, מ׳ִזְמוֹר לְ׳תוֹדָה, מ״ל, are equal to 70, referring to the 70 screams of a woman before giving birth. There are also 43 words referring to the klipa of גם, which also equals 43, from the posuk (Malachim1 3:25) וְזֹאת אֹמֶרֶת גַּם-לִי גַם-לָךְ לֹא יִהְיֶה-גְּזֹרוּ. (Likutei Mohoran II 2, end)

Sweeten Harsh Judgments

Chapters 39 and 77 sweeten harsh judgments. (Sefer Hamidos, Hamtokas Din 37, 42)

Teshuvah

Chapter 51 is established on teshuva. (Noam Eliezer)

Harsh Decrees

For harsh decrees, that the nations decree on Yisroel, recite chapter 62. (Sefer Hamidos, Hamtokas Din, 53)

Haters

To get rid of haters recite chapter 71. (Refuah V’Chaim)

For Barren Woman

A segula for a barren woman to bear children is to recite chapter 102. (Likutei Mamorim)

Shidduch

In Asara Mamoros it says that reciting Chapter 121 at the end of all the tefilos, before stepping back, is a segula to find a good shidduch. (Igra D'Pirka 63) The source for saying Tehilim 121 is a Medrash that says Yaakov Avinu said this, praying to find his match. The first posuk says "From where will my helper (meaning wife) come?" And the next posuk says "My help will come from Hashem".

One who is looking for a shidduch should say the following chapters of Tehilim: 32, 38, 70, 71, 124. (Segulas Yisroel)

Rescue from Enemies

Take salt in your hand and recite chapter 125 seven times. Then, throw the salt in front of your enemies or between them, and you’ll be saved. (Refuos V’Segulos from Levushei Srad)

Sleep

The 15 chapters of Shir Hamalos (120-134) are a segula to eliminate sleep. (Sefer Hamidos, Sheina 3)

Chapters 1-4 recited before going to sleep, are a segula to prevent mikra layla. (Shlah)

Victory

For victory recite chapter 12. (Sefer Hamidos, Meriva 37)

Chapter 67

Many seforim bring down segulas attributed to reciting chapter 67 in the form of a menorah. Some have it printed on parchment.

For Release of Prisoners

Many times in recent years Rabbonim have asked that Chapter 142 be recited for the release of prisoners, since this is what Dovid HaMelech said when he was trapped in the cave.

Corresponding to Age

The Baal HaTanya received from his Rebbe, who received from the Baal Shem Tov, who received from his teacher a minhag that one should recite the chapter of Tehilim corresponding to one’s next Birthday. So, for example, if a boy turns 13, he would recite Chapter 14 everyday, and on every Rosh Chodesh, study that chapter with Rashi. (Tehilim Tehilah L’Dovid)

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Being Machmir On Trivialities

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People who are overly rigid on insignificant issues usually roll over and give in when faced with significant issues.

Before

Teshuva is one of seven things created before the world came into existence.

(Talmud - Pesachim 54a)

Sunday, August 26, 2007

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Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh


Thanks to my good friend Dixie Yid, I purchased the English translation of Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh. My neshoma lit right up on Shabbos morning when I opened it up for the first time.

When a parent, spouse, or close friend puts their hand on your back, you experience a deep feeling of comfort or encouragement. This is the precise feeling that I experienced when learning this sefer; as if the Ribbono shel Olam was putting His hand on my back and encouraging me to come closer to Him.

This sefer certainly does not need my haskama, but nevertheless I highly recommend it to everyone. I guarantee that this sefer will ignite a fire in your heart.

A New Center The Middle Of Yerushalayim

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Friday, August 24, 2007

Guest Posting By Rabbi Ozer Bergman - Simcha

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Reb Moshe ben Yehuda, a Breslover from Uman who moved to Teverya (aka Tiberias) Eretz Yisrael in the 1870s, writes in one his letters:

Just as the Rebbe (Nachman zal) told us to practice hitbodedut daily, he also told us to be b’simcha.

Approximately 99.99% of the world, when they hear that famous Breslov motto, “Mitzvah gedolah l’hiyot b’simcha tamid” (usually misconstrued as “It’s a great mitzvah to always be happy”) either paste a smile on their face, grumble about the impossibility of such a thing, or smile (smirk?) at the quaintness of such a seemingly simpleminded notion.

In addition to his great level of tzidkut (saintliness), Rebbe Nachman was a genius not only in Torah (i.e., that he could learn a sugya [Talmudic topic] with the best of them), and not only in understanding the human psyche (that the happier we are the better we perform in any given endeavor), but in knowing how to fix the world and those of us who inhabit it. So “mitzvah gedolah l’hiyot b’simcha tamid” (which we may yet translate before this posting is finished) is critical to fixing not only our individual neshamot, but the entire blessed mess of this pain-ridden universe. (When it hurts you, tattele-shein/mammale-shein,* it hurts the Shekhinah and the Ribono shel Olam too.)

Likutey Moharan II, Lessons #23 and 24 are lessons in which Rebbe Nachman focuses squarely on the avodah of simcha. (Lesson #24 is actually the source of “Mitzvah gedolah l’hiyot b’simcha tamid.”) Now, whether you noticed it or not, in the previous (non-parenthesized) sentence, I stuck in the word avodah, which means two related things, “work” and “religious devotion/practice.” Broadly speaking, there are two types of simcha (happiness, joy, cheer, optimism). One is for kids, a childish sort of simcha: When Mommy or Daddy, or Bubby or Zeidy, gives you a lollipop, or a trip to Israel or the credit card. It's the type of simcha most people are looking for and pray for: If only I had...or he hadn’t.... God, I’ll be so happy if I have this job, if I can learn daf yomi, if I can be in Uman for Rosh HaShanah. (These are all good things, some of them are also noble. One should pray for them if he feels the need for them. But...) The common denominator of all these is that we are dependent on someone for our simcha. It is a gift, and lacking that gift we aren't happy.

That’s not the kind of simcha Rebbe Nachman is talking about. It’s not “mitzvah gedolah” simcha.

The pasted-on “Life is perfect, and nothing hurts, nothing bothers me” smile is also a symptom of false-simcha. It’s not the kind of simcha Rebbe Nachman is talking about. It’s not “mitzvah gedolah” simcha.

So what is? I’m glad you asked. “Mitzvah gedolah” simcha is simcha you earn. It is simcha you work to make. It is mature simcha.

I don’t know if it’s also Rebbe Nachman’s genius, but it is certainly his concern that is on display when he tells us (in the above mentioned lessons and Likutey Moharan II, Lesson #119 and Sichot HaRan #308.) that the world is full of pain, suffering and frustration—and it won’t go away unless you make it go away. Whatever the reason(s), stuff happens in life, big stuff and little stuff. Deal with it, Rebbe Nachman says. Face up to your challenges, look your pain squarely in the eye. Grab it and make it do something it doesn’t want to do—make it a reason for simcha, make it a vehicle for kedushah (holiness, sanctity).

How are you going to do that? That's the avodah, the hard work part, the “religious devotion” and dedication part. It starts with tefilah (prayer), it starts with acknowledging the pain and frustration, and it starts with the courage to step up and deal with your problems in order to make God happy.

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*Literally, “handsome little daddy” and “pretty little mommy.” Yiddish terms of endearment for a young boy and a young girl, respectively.

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Without Simcha

The Torah does not specify the aveiros for which the Jewish people will be punished. The only one which it mentions specifically is, "Because you did not serve Hashem your G-d with simcha."

(Rebbe Simcha Bunim of Pshischa)

Thursday, August 23, 2007

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Embellishing A Story About The Degel Machaneh Ephraim?


Rabbi Tal Zwecker recently brought to my attention that Yair Weinstock's book "Tales for the Soul - Volume 5" includes a curious story about the Degel Machaneh Ephraim. The first page of Yair Weinstock's story "En Route to the Chupah" claims that the Baal Shem Tov attended the Degel's wedding, that the wedding was held in Sudilkov, and that the Toldos Yaakov Yosef acted as the mesader kiddushin.

While I was initially amazed at all these details, I quickly consulted my research about the Degel's life and decided that Weinstock's details were simply embellishments in the same vein as Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach's story "Moishele the Ganev II".

The Baal Shem Tov passed away in 1760 when the Degel was 12 years old. The 1763 census of Polish Jewry notes that the Degel, then 15 years-old, was married and living with his wife Yetel in Mezhibuz. And, it was not until 1780, when the Degel was 32 years-old, when he moved to Sudilkov.

While it was certainly possible that the Toldos Yaakov Yosef acted as the mesader kiddushin at the Degel's wedding, this is appears to be an unsubstantiated claim since I have never come across such information in all the sources and stories I have seen about the Degel's life.

I would curious to contact Yair Weinstock to find out more about the source of his information for his story "En Route to the Chupah". According to my information, Sudilkov most famous wedding occurred when the Meor Einayim traveled to the shtetl to attend the wedding of his grandson to Degel's granddaughter.

Continuing The Discussion - Hisbodedus vs. Hisbonenus

A field in Sudilkov

After reviewing our discussion on "Reasons For Not Jumping Straight Into Hisbodedus":

Rabbi Lazer Brody commented,

"Rabbenu Nachman told us to do 60 minutes of hisbodedus a day. The highest level is bitul, when I nullify my own sechel and subjugate myself to the tzaddik, and do what he tells me. That's what hiskashrus is all about."

Rabbi Ozer Bergman commented,

"Rebbe Nachman teaches (Likutey Moharan I, 29) that dibbur without daas isn't dibbur. Just to say words without thinking about what one is saying (the way most people daven?) is no way to have hisbodedus or even a conversation with a fellow human being!

In hisbodedus, some words need to be thought about before one can decide whether or not he really means them ("Is that what I want?" "Can I really promise this to Hashem?" "Do I truly feel this way?")

Some words are true, but need "fire." One has to "get himself into the zone" to speak them with earnest, honest passion.

Some words are so true they come straight from the gut -- thinking only gets in the way."


Rabbi Dovid Sears commented:

"I once asked Rav Kenig of Tzefat about the role of contemplation in hisbodedus, and he referred me to Torah 10 in the second part of Likkutei Moharan. This lesson discusses "yishuv ha-daas," gained through contemplation of the meaning of life and the futility of pursuing mundane desires. It also stresses the importance of simchah, in the sense of cultivating a positive frame of mind. Rav Kenig said that all this is part of hisbodedus, too."

More On Uplifting Sparks In Music

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Received via e-mail from Moshe F.:

Hey ASJ. I've been following all your recent discussions on both Jewish music and hisbodedus, and here's something that could contribute to both of them.

The Arutz 7 TV had an interview with YOOD, a Chassidic rock band. In the interview, the band talk about uplifting sparks in music, tohu and tikkun, and I think the song played during the interview (set my soul free) is an excellent example of hisbodedus! If you find it worth while to talk about, I think it could broaden everyone's horizons about these two important subjects.

Here's the link. (The interview starts on 5th minute and goes to minute 12.)

Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh Visit To America

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UPDATE: Shiur in Woodmere postponed

Learning Alone

Those who study Torah alone will lose their ability to understand even פשט, the Torah's plan meaning. The letters of פשט will realign and form טפש, "fool" - and they will become foolish.

(Ben Ish Chai)

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

"Reasons For Not Jumping Straight Into Hisbodedus"

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Dixie Yid commenting on An Indirect Route? Hisbonenus vs. Hisbodedus:

Okay ASJ, as I promised you, I wanted to translate for you a few passages from Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh, chelek beis ch. 14 D"H "3 Levels: Machshava, Dibur and Ma'aseh", on his reasons for not jumping straight into Hisbodedus, but rather to first build up Machshava, a.k.a. Hisbonenus. I started the translation and then remembered that "My friend Yaakov" had already done the job at Bilvavi.net so I'm quoting here the most relevant passages in translation. Here goes:

Every level and every world must be properly built! If there is no solid process of thought before one comes to speak, a person falls too quickly from the world of thought to the world of speech. His thought is too weak, and thus, the speech based on it is not solid, and the entire structure is only like a castle built in the air.

What is the proper kind of thought? First of all, one must know that there is a Creator. He starts thinking about it. He doesn't say anything, but in his thought, he thinks, "Who created the world? There must be a Creator, etc." He contemplates this (each person according to the time needed), until the intellect clearly recognizes that there is a Creator.

In the second stage, he takes this point, and speaks about it to himself: "This is what I thought, and it became clear to me that there is a Creator, because if not, where did the moon come from? From where are the stars? From where are people?" and so on. Only in the third stage does he approach Hashem and speak to Him.

In other words, there must be three well-established phases. The first phase is real contemplation, spending a long time contemplating well about the matter. The second phase is that after the contemplation, one begins to speak to himself: "The world has a Master, He controls the palace, and I see His Divine Providence." The third phase is where he speaks to Hashem and says, "Master of the world, I have clarified for myself that there is a Creator, that You exist, that you control the palace, that every detail happens through You," and so on.

If one jumps immediately to the third phase, we can anticipate a total collapse! Even if one only skips over the first phase, the phase of thought, and jumps right away to the second phase, that of speech, it will still be difficult for his efforts to have any lasting value.

Question & Answer With Shifra Shomron - Remembering Neve Dekalim


A Simple Jew asks:

In your book "Grains of Sand" The Fall of Neve Dekalim", you wrote,

"The tragic events regarding Gush Katif burned in me, forcing me to take pen in hand and spill the burning lava of my thoughts and emotions onto white paper."

Now with two years behind you since the time you and your family were expelled from your home in Neve Dekalim, have your opinions about the State of Israel lost any of their intensity? Do you feel that is hard to remain living in a country that betrayed you?

Shifra Shomron answers:

Two years since Disengagement have not lessened my feelings regarding the State of Israel. Perhaps, I should first state that Disengagement itself did not change my feelings towards the State - though perhaps it sharpened them. I do not feel that my country betrayed me - since I never had any trust in its leaders.

Indeed, looking back in our history, we can see that little has changed in the ensuing 60 years of statehood. David Ben-Gurion refused to conquer all of biblical Israel in 1948 though he admittedly had the capacity to do so. He then gave away the Sinai and Gaza in 1956. Levi Eshkol refused to annex the re-conquered lands in 1967. Golda Meir publicly announced that she could forgive the Arabs for attacking us but she could not forgive them for teaching us to kill. In other words, she preferred sacrificing Jews rather than defending them. Menachem Begin was the first Jewish Prime Minister to forcibly remove Jews from their homes in Israel, as he destroyed the Jewish communities in the Sinai region and gave the Sinai to the Egyptians. And the more recent Prime Ministers have done nothing to make us trust them. So why should I feel betrayed? Have I ever been given reason to expect alternative behavior from Israel's leaders?

However, my identity with the State of Israel is not because of the leaders but rather in spite of them! As a daughter of the Jewish nation, this is my land. This is my heritage. And I love my country and my people - and do my best to make this a better place by participating in national elections, writing articles, publishing my historic novel "Grains Of Sand: The Fall Of Neve Dekalim", and studying to become a high-school English and Bible teacher. Yes, it is difficult to live in Israel - but God gave this land to the Jewish nation, and this is where I belong.

A Painting As A Comment

Shoshannah Brombacher commenting on Fighting In The Grave:

Shalom! Dixie Yid wrote about a Shimon the Miser, I told him I heard a similar story about Yossele the Miser, and by coincidence made a drawing about that just a few day ago

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Rush To Read It

Every true descendant of Avraham certainly wishes to be a good Jew. The only think lacking is knowledge of Torah. Every person realizes that if a wealthy man or great scholar wrote him a letter saying that he should do something, he would certainly try very hard to fulfill it as soon as possible. If the letter was written in a foreign language, he would even pay to have it translated so as to know what to do. This should be all the more case of the Torah. Now that there is a book like this, prepared and waiting, clearly explaining every detail, everyone should rush to read it.

(Rabbi Yaakov Culi)

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

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Question & Answer With Chaim Of Life-Of-Rubin - American Pop Culture


A Simple Jew asks:


In a sicha from Rosh Chodesh Elul 5714 / 1954, the Lubavitcher Rebbe said,

"Certainly we need to control reading material coming into our home and what we hear on the radio. But the most potent influence even upon adults, certainly upon much more impressionable children and teenagers, are the visual media: television, movies, for these grab our total attention. "

While the Lubavitcher Rebbe certainly promoted the use of television to spread Torah teachings, from the above teaching it appears that the Lubavitcher Rebbe did not promote a person - and certainly not a chassid - watching whatever television program he or she desired. As a chassid who lives in the heart of Crown Heights, do you ever feel pressure from your community to curtail your exposure to American pop culture?

Chaim answers:

The Rebbe wanted us to use new technology to help spread Torah and encourage people to do more Mitzvos. The problem was/is that there are too many people who are themselves influenced by pop culture. It's not easy for a person to be exposed to popular culture and not become attracted to it.

The challenge that the Rebbe presented to us is therefore that much greater. Not only was he asking us to use these tools, but to somehow make ourselves stronger by facing our taivahs and still attempting to avoid them.

Before a person does anything they need to know themselves. It's important that if you are not strong in your own Hashkafic convictions you don't immerse yourself in something that will tempt you. The reward from using something like TV to spread Torah is huge. One person can go into the street, but he can only speak to one person at a time. Even if a person has a public shiur he still can't effect more then a couple hundred at best.

When a person goes on television he can reach millions of people in the same time it would take a person an entire lifetimes.

Just as a person has to know his or her own limits and how strong they are spiritually. People also have to be able to know how to use anything the right way or the wrong way. It's not just TV or the Internet. Anything can be used the wrong way or the right way. Take Tzniuis for instance. Today's fashions allow for a women to dress traditionally Tznius but not within the spirit of Tznius. Women can have their elbows and knees and hair covered but wear whatever new tight fitting top or slinky skirt that Gap or Express is debuting with the new Fall Fashions.

You can see that anything can be done in a good way or a bad way. Here is another example. Men who go out to Shiruim till very late at night. Learning Torah is a very important thing. But Shalom Bayis and being a part of your home family is also very important. If you are out early in the morning for Shachris and then go to work all day, then maybe coming home for dinner for 30 minutes. Then going back out to a Shiur for 2 hours is not the best idea.

You have to know how much of a good thing is too much. Maybe only go out one night, or two nights. Make sure that your home for a significant period of time before you run back out. Do homework with your children. Learn with them. Make sure your wife doesn't need you for anything. Being at home is sometimes more important. I've seen too many times these situations where the wives are overworked and angry because their husband is never around.

We're all so upset about the "at risk" problem. Have we ever once stopped to think that maybe if fathers spent more time learning with their own children it would be better? Yes, we send our kids to school for a reason but the time you spend connecting with your children will make a major difference as the grow up. If all they remember is a father who was home for 30 minutes for dinner (if even that) then they will need to bond and look to outside sources for that connection.

That's really taking this on a tangent, but I felt like it was an important point to address. Getting back to the main discussion here. Just like a person can take a seemingly good thing and use it wrong. We can also take a seemingly bad thing and use it for good. The trick is just being honest with yourself and knowing if you can make the distinction. In a way it's great because it allows us another chance to better ourselves. If a person can use TV or the Internet to channel it only for good and not be tempted or influenced by its negative effects. How much stronger will we be?

A person will never know how strong he us until he has gone into battle. This rule applies to being spiritually strong as well. I think The Rebbe had tremendous confidence in us and truly believed that we could use something like TV without becoming a couch potato. So when I see either myself or people around me losing that battle and being influenced by "pop culture" I just try to remind myself that so much good has been done through new technology. We just have to be strong ourselves and try to avoid the pressure you speak of.

Weary

A person can be faint and weary because of different afflictions and fasts he imposes on himself, and nevertheless not fear Hashem.

(Chozeh of Lublin)

Monday, August 20, 2007

Question & Answer With Rabbi Nasan Maimon - V'Sartem


A Simple Jew asks:

In Degel Machaneh Ephraim, Parshas Kedoshim, the Degel teaches in the name of his grandfather, the Baal Shem Tov, that immediately when a person turns away from his state of deveykus and his consciousness of Hashem it is considered as if he is serving other gods.

What advice does Rebbe Nachman of Breslov provide to the simple Jew on how to attain and constantly retain such consciousness?

Rabbi Nasan Maimon responds:

The Baal Shem Tov put great emphasis on "Bechol Derochecha Da’ai’hu, In all your ways know (be conscious of) Hashem."

Rabbi Nachman of Breslov put his greatest emphasis on Hisbodedus, personal, private communication with Hashem in your own words and language on a daily basis at a fixed time and place. This applies to all Jews on every level.

I once saw in a sefer (I believe it was written by the Chida Zal) that a person who has "hisbodedus" regularly will always be conscious of Hashem.

This can be seen in that the first letters of "Bechol Derochecha Da’ai’hu" spell the word "Badad" which is the root of the word "hisbodedus".

A Hachnosas Sefer Torah In Tsfat






(Pictures by Jack Klein)

An Indirect Route? Hisbonenus vs. Hisbodedus


If a person wants to turn on a light switch. Why would he need to contemplate electricity [hisbonenus] and then audibly tell his finger to flip the switch [talking to oneself]?

With hisbodedus a person connects to the One who created light. So, why would a person take an indirect route?

Impossible

From the smallest to the greatest, it is impossible to be a truly good Jew without hisbodedus.

(Rebbe Nachman of Breslov)

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Black & White Picture Of The Week - Sunflower

Friday, August 17, 2007

Question & Answer With Dixie Yid - Fighting In The Grave

(Picture courtesy of bbc.co.uk)

A Simple Jew asks:

Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 199:6 states:

"Two people who hated one another should not be buried next to each other, for even in their death they will have no peace together."

How do Kabbalah and Chassidus elaborate on this phenomenon of two people continuing their dispute even after they are no longer alive?

Dixie Yid answers:

I do not know anything about this halacha, so I asked my rebbe and I'll share the answer he gave me with you. He said that he didn't read the halacha literally, that the two people would literally keep fighting if their graves were near each other. Rather, he viewed it as more of an issue of kavod hameis. Normally, the proximity of graves is a matter of kavod for the two people and it might imply some connection between their neshamos. On the flip side, it would simply not be bekovodik to place someone's grave right beside one whom he hated.

We have heard stories that refer to this like the story of the Miser of Krakow. When Reb Shimon, a lonely miser, was niftar, the Chevra Kadisha decided to give him a buried plot befitting his miserly nature. They buried him at the edge of the cemetary, by himself. A week after the miser's death, the Rav of Krakow noticed that many of the poor people suddently began coming to him for help because their anonymous benefactor had stopped assisting them. He put two and two together, and realized that it was Reb Shimon, the miser, who was supporting all of these poor people. At his death, the Rav asked to be buried by the lowly grave of Reb Shimon, "The Miser."

It is apparant from such stories that if two people are fitting together and a "good match," so to speak, then it is a kavod to both of them to be buried side by side.

My Rav shared a great story related to this halacha. He said that he was learning in a Beis Medresh about 27 years ago where there were two old men who really hated each other. These men would constantly bicker and truly seemed to dispise one another. He said that it was a sad sight to see. One day, though, they learned that they had unintentionally bought burial plots right next to one another! Now they both knew the halacha that if two enemies are buried next to each other, they will have no peace, but will instead continue their dispute into the grave. Therefore, since they did not want to suffer that fate, they had no choice but to...

Now before I continue the story, I must tell you what I and perhaps some of you thought the answer was going to be. I thought they were going to call their burial plot real estate agents, complain and get their plots moved so that they would not be side by side anymore. However I was wrong. The fact that they were going to be next to each other was their impetus to make shalom and end their long-term emnity once and for all. All of the chevra in the Beis Medresh made l'Chaim and everyone was very happy to see that sad chapter between them end.

If anyone out there knows anything about the mechanics / Kabblah / Chasidus of this halacha, I would also be interested in learning more.

Erev Shabbos Links


Wilderness City: A Man Homeless

Dixie Yid: My Answer To One of the Comments Received on Parenting

This Will Definitely Cheer You Up!

Here - Here - Here - Here - Here

(Be sure to turn up your speakers)

A person has to work very hard to force himself to be constantly joyful and to do whatever he can to make himself joyful - even with silly things. (Rebbe Nachman of Breslov)

The Same Yardstick

First judge yourself, and, using the same yardstick, judge others. Do not be lenient with your own faults while judging harshly the same faults in others; do not overlook sin in yourself while demanding perfection of others.

(Rebbe Yaakov Yosef of Polonoye)

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Guest Posting From Rabbi Dovid Sears - "Who Took the 'Jewish' Out of Jewish Music" Revisited

(Painting by Martina Shapiro)

I sympathize with what has been posted here recently about the current state of Jewish music. In one of the comments, someone invoked the article I wrote for the Jewish Observer about this ten years ago (which did nothing to improve things). Just to clarify my position: what I objected to was not so much a particular music style, or the influence of foreign musical ideas, but the spiritual bankruptcy of the current Jewish pop music. The niggunim we sing in shul are so profound -- while the commercial stuff tends to be awful (at least to my ears), mimicking cheap night club music and everything that is superficial and slick.

This is not an accident!

Our art reflects our values and our inner life. Chassidic niggunim are deep and stirring because the people who produced them were focussed on the spiritual life. Some Chassidim still are. By contrast, today's Jewish pop music, too, is a mirror of who we are and our values -- which I need not describe.

The solution is not more issurim and charomim, not adding more things to the "black list." It is to engage in some long-overdue cheshbon ha-nefesh, and to get back on track! And part of the blame goes to our approach in chinnuch. If we leave seforim that deal with the inner life out of the yeshivah curriculum, inevitably we will pay the price for such neglect in producing talmidim who may be experts in lomdus, but who are still in kitah alef when it comes to Yiddishkeit as a derekh in inner growth and hiskarvus to the Eybishter.

My Rosh Yeshivah, the Bostoner Rebbe of Flatbush, shlita, once discussed this problem and basically took the same position. Thus, his yeshivah included a Maharal shiur every Sunday, a mussar shmuess on Erev Shabbos, regular haskofah shiurim, and in more recent years, a weekly shiur in Chassidus. I would have preferred even more -- but this definitely made a difference for talmidim who were searching for guidance in these areas. (I don't know if they had better taste in music, but given the Bostoner repertoire, I would hope so!)

POETRY

Yossele Kvetch wrote: "With all due respect, our medieval paytanim were awesome tzaddikim, but they were not as great writers as William Blake or Dylan Thomas or Robert Frost, and not too many frum instrumentalists compare to Leo Kottke or John Coltrane or Andres Segovia or Pablo Casals..."

It seems to me that we are comparing apples and oranges. The societies and cultures that produced those great artists and others like them need to be understood on their own terms. So do the Jewish societies and cultures that produced our great paytanim and songwriters and musicians. (Our paytanim were extremely skillful and brilliant, and the poems they wrote were extraordinary for what they were. However, they were not created in a vacuum, but often show the influence of medieval Arabic verse.)

I'm not an expert in any of this, but I would think it more legitimate to compare religious poets with religious poets -- let's say Yehudah Halevi with Rumi -- than writers who have almost nothing in common. You can't compare modernist poets, who were actively breaking away from their traditions, with Jewish religious writers living in the shtetl or even in larger Jewish enclaves, coming from such a completely different mindset.

Moreover, many of our greatest religious writers were working in media that have no parallel outside of the Jewish world. For example, Rabbi Nachman's kalaidoscopic discourses are art forms of their own; so is the prose of Rav Kook.

INSTRUMENTALISTS

The same thing applies to music. Instrumentalists of other rich musical traditions have been in a very different position than our own, and those who would make comparisons have to consider this.

We are told that the Levi'im devoted their lives to composing and playing music in the Beis HaMikdosh for centuries, and were unmatched in the ancient world. A famous Islamic Persian musician once told Andy Statman that Jews were the official musicians of his country for generations, and that many core ideas of Indian classical music migrated from Persia eastward, where they developed into one of the most profound musical tradions in the world. However, Ashkenazic Jewry was basically relegated to an outcast existence, and we lost most of our ancient culture, especially our music. There were only limited economic opportunities for players; but strong folk traditions nevertheless developed, and in many countries Jewish musicians were sought out even by the gentile nobility. In the 19th century some assimilated Jews became famous classical musicians and composers, while "klezmer" players remained an integralpart of Jewish village life.

Instead of comparing clarinetists Dave Tarras and Naftule Brandwein and tsimbalist Josef Moskowitz to Coltrane, Segovia, and Casals, I would suggest comparing them to folk musicians like Appalachian virtuoso Hobart Smith or Dixieland clarinetist George Lewis. When seen in this light, I think the great klezmorim can hold their own!

Thursday Links


The Muqata: Prophesy in Jerusalem

Mystical Paths: The Terrified Israeli Politician

Beyond Teshuva: BT Wife, Non-Observant Husband

A Simple Jew: 111 Days Before I Was Born

Lazer Beams: Introducing Chassidic Pearls - now in book form!

Simply Tsfat Concert In Baltimore - September 2

Pen Or Keyboard

Get yourself a friend (Pirkei Avos 1:6). The Hebrew, k'neh lecha chaver, can also be translated as: "Your pen is your friend." Unless you have a spiritual teacher or a very good friend in whom you can confide about your hisbodedus, most of the time you will have no one to guide you directly or keep track of your work and progress. One of the best aids for hisbodedus, and spiritual growth in general, is paper and something to write with.

(Rabbi Avraham Greenbaum)

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Audio Shiurim From Rabbi Ozer Bergman - Being A Hassid L'maaseh

Rabbi Ozer Bergman
(Picture courtesy of batayin.org)


Being a Hassid L'maaseh - 1

Being a Hassid L'maaseh - 2

Being a Hassid L'maaseh - 3

Being a Hassid L'maaseh - 4

Being a Hassid L'maaseh - 5

Being a Hassid L'maaseh - 6

Five Year-Old Clarity

(Picture courtesy of bizviet.net)

I wish I could view the world with the black and white eyes of my oldest daughter whom is turning five years-old today. My wife and I have been absolutely astounded at the self-control she exhibited on occasions during the past year when she was told that the birthday cake of another child, or a delicious piece of candy she was given by a neighbor was not kosher.

This is the same little girl who in our home will protest with all the fury of her red-headed self if she doesn't get the food she is desiring at that particular second. When we are away from home, however, and we tell her something is not kosher, she immediately stops and accepts it - without crying, without a throwing a temper tantrum, and without uttering even a single word of complaint; understanding that that there is nothing in the world that anyone could do to transform something that is not kosher into something kosher.

If only I could have this same clarity to silence the "rational" arguments of my yetzer hara.

Adding Tehillim 27

(Picture by Paolo Berardi)

Elul’s Daily Dose of Encouragement

Mixed In

It is fitting that you be aware that your greatest enemy in the world is your yetzer hara, blended into the powers of your soul, mixed in with your spirit, and participant with you in the direction of your physical and spiritual perceptions.

(Chovos Halevavos)

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Guest Posting From Rabbi Avraham Bloomenstiel - Some Thoughts on Breslov & Music

(Picture courtesy of musicalclarity.com)

Rabbi Avraham Bloomenstiel studied Musicology and Music Composition at Harvard University, Goucher College, and the Peabody Conservatory. He is a shaliach of Chassidei Breslov in Baltimore and gives regular shiurim in contemporary halachic topics at http://www.virtualyeshiva.com/.

Musically speaking, the past 150 years is unique in all of music history. Thanks to recording technology, music is ubiquitous. It’s with us when shopping, when eating, waiting for oil change, driving. On one hand, we have access to the joys of musical experience in a way we never have before, but on the other hand we take for granted much of the experience of music. Reading pre-recording era descriptions of music making is eye-opening: when a great performer came to a city he brought the populace to its knees. Paganini, for example, could bring the great European metropolises to complete standstills. Additionally, people sacrificed a lot for the musical experience which was considered a sublime communion by many. A young Johann Sebastian Bach is famously known to have walked over 200 miles to hear a recital by Dietrich Buxtehude, the greatest organist of the day.

Such tales seem almost silly and frivolous nowadays. But, again, we are a different society, musically speaking. The general consensus amongst musicologists and historians is that we are in a period of musical numbness. We have become trained by canned mall-music and elevator dirges to tune out music after only few minutes. Studies show that the average listener’s musical attention span has been trained to be about the length of a pop-song on the radio. After that we tune out.

As a result of this numbing, we are often unaware of the most important nuances and subtleties of melody. For a Jew, this numbness carries particular risks.

Music is regarded as one of the zayain chochmos hinted to in Mishlei 9:1 : “Wisdom has built her house; she has hewn her seven pillars.” I once asked Rav Yaakov Meir Schechter shlit”a, what it meant to label music a chochma. He answered that “One quality of the seven wisdoms is that they teach a person how to be aware of things that, absent such wisdom, one would not see. This is music.”

This remark struck a very deep chord (pun intended). My training as a composer in the conservatory system was all about learning to hear. I remember listening to Pierre Boulez’s avant garde work Structures (Book 2) for Two Pianos in my first year of theory and thinking “Two monkeys at a piano could do better.” Several years later I heard it performed and was thrilled. I heard a world of music, a new landscape that was as lovely, marvelous, and rich as any Bach, Mozart, or Beethoven. I had learned to hear the language of Boulez’s music and could appreciate it on its terms. The first time I heard the work though, it was a closed world.

Another example: in an ethno-musicology course we listened to several clips of Tuvan throat singing. This is a bizarre vocal technique by which the human voice can sing two pitches at the same time. The first time I heard it, it just sounded like someone growling. After two listenings, I realized that there was an ethereal, lovely, whistling melody soaring above the fundamental tone of the voice. It was always there, but the training in how and what to listen for revealed it.

I believe Rav Yaakov Meir was speaking about these subtle aspects of music. As any professional performer can tell you, the physical difference between a good and a great performance is about 5% – the make-or-break is in the minutest subtleties of attack, phrasing, articulation, etc.

On a deeper level, though, I believe Rav Yaakov was speaking about Rabbenu Nachman of Breslov’s understanding of music. In Likutey Halachos (very beginning of Orach Chayim, ma’amar Nekudos Toivos) Reb Noson describes how composing melody is the act of being mevarer nekudos tovos, the process of evaluating and clarifying positive and negative nuances within oneself. The Rebbe, in the source Torah in Likutey Moharan, speaks in great detail about how the careful motion of the hands over an instrument is also in the geder of being mevarer nekudos toivos.

What comes out is that music is as much a process of subtle clarification and control on the physical level (attack, tone, tempo) as it is on a spiritual level (emotion expression).

This internal process of birur (clarifying these points) and chibur (synthesizing them into musical expression) by default inserts something of the performer/composer into the music. This process is what brings the music alive and transforms music making and listening into a human experience. In this sense, the music itself is a horizon of spiritual contact between performer/composer and listener. As we listen we experience not only the music, but elements (nekudos) of the performer and the composer.

This can be a beautiful experience, but can also be dangerous. The Reishis Chochma in Shaar Avaha 10 writes that song, if is improper or coming from an improper place, can actually uproot a listener’s soul from its holy source. Though this frightening warning is echoed by numerous seforim it is not a halachic statement. The warnings against improper music are brought mostly in the Sifrei Mussar and are based upon a gemora in Chagiga 15a. “Why did Elisha ben Avuyah become an apostate?” asks the Gemora. Because: “Greek music never ceased from his lips.” We see that this great sage, a master of kol chadrei torah, corrupted his soul through his involvement in inappropriate song.

All the more so, warn today’s Gadolim, must we be cautious. Music is everywhere and, as mentioned above, we tend to take its power and impact for granted. There was a time when we were much more aware of its affects, but in our days that awareness is numbed.

This having been said, there is an idea that these inappropriate melodies can be rectified. Rabbenu z”l , as well as many other Chassidic masters, write about this possibility. Using the paradigm of birur mentioned above, we understand this rectification as more than just setting holy words to a non-Jewish tune. The rectification is an actual tikkun, a second birur of the nekudos, subtleties, and nuances contained in the very melody itself. This deep reworking of the tune is not something that all persons are capable of. This is even of musicians. The Teshuvat u-Biurim brings a letter from the Lubavitcher Rebbe ztvk”l written to a religious Jewish composer who wanted to set holy words and themes to non-Jewish rock tunes. The rebbe dissuaded him, asking him to consider the outcome: Which would have more impact? Would he influence the melody, or, would the melody ultimately influence him? The Sefer Chassidim 238 takes the sternest position by forbidding any songs from non-holy sources, secular Jewish or non-Jewish, from being adapted even to holy purposes (needless to say, not many nowadays are noheg like the Sefer Chasidim).

In the end, the rectification if such music is something best left to those who not only understand the subtleties of the act of making and producing music, but also the nuanced, delicate process of birur that goes into creating the musical experience, the human expressive aspect of the music.

While these ideas speak mostly to our relationship to non-Jewish music, the Rebbe’s insights can also be applied to many of the other halachic issues regarding music (i.e. The halachic permissibility of listening to music bikhlal, using pesukim for songs, etc.).

Musician & Instrument

The musician playing the instrument must gather the good spirit – the spirit of prophecy – and separate it from the sad, depressed spirit. He must understand music in order to know how to sift out and gather up the parts of the spirit and put them together in order to construct the melody, namely the joy, in order to build the good, prophetic spirit, which is the opposite of the depressed spirit. He must move his hand up and down the instrument in order to channel the joy and bring it to perfection.

(Rebbe Nachman of Breslov)

Monday, August 13, 2007

Guest Posting By Chabakuk Elisha - Ashkenazim & Sephardim


A Simple Jew recently sent me an article that touched on the infrequency of marriages between Ashkenazim and Sephardim. Being that I am from Ashkenazic family and my wife is from a Sephardic family, I have my opinions on the subject – and while I realize that there is anti-Sephardi racism harbored my some (perhaps many) Ashkenazim, I don't think that's the only reason for this phenomenon. Obviously, any such pure racism is disgusting, and would in my opinion be a Chilul Hashem. Maybe another reason for me to like R' Mendele Vitebsker is that he married his children to Sephardim. But, truth be told, I don't think it's so simple:

We all have our cultural background. We are heavily affected by our environment and upbringing. We adopt attitudes and ideas from our communities, peers and teachers. We are products of, and proud of, our individual cultures. Obviously, it is only normal to look for a spouse with a similar background – and I don't think there is anything wrong with that – and I think that's the primary reason that Ashkenazim want to marry Ashkenzaim. Just as we would expect a Chossid to marry into a Chassidic family and a Litvak to marry into a Litvishe family, or an American to marry an American family and a Mizrachi to marry with a Mizrachi family, it's normal for an Ashkenazi to seek to marry an Ashkenazi. And, yes, should their "stock" fall, for whatever reason, they would naturally be more open to other ideas – we needn't paint that as racism.

More to the point though, Ashkenazi / Sephardi labels are broad terms. There are all kinds of Ashkenazim and all kinds of Sephardim. And while things were different once, I must say that in many places today's Sephardim and Ashkenazim have much more in common than they did in generations past. The world is smaller, the experiences more similar and the communities not as distant or separate. Many Sephardi children go to school with Ashkenazi children, and in many cases all these definitions lose their past meanings. So, while differences exist, very often we can find that we have much more in common today.

In my specific case, there are far less of the differences than similar cases might have. My wife is a Lubavitcher – therefore, minhagim are pretty much Chabad minhagim, the Siddur is a Chabad Siddur, and the wavelength she's on is that of a Lubavitcher first and Sephardi (a perhaps distant) second. She speaks (and teaches in) Yiddish and most of our children have Yiddish names (although some of her family members might find that a bit funny) – in fact, when we went out, I didn't believe that she was really Sephardi. Sure, some cultural differences exist, but I don't see why that would be a bad thing.

That said, the rest of my wife's family is a bit more obviously Sephardi. They maintain many Sephardi minhagim and the attitudes can be quite different from mine or those of many Ashkenazim. They find certain things important that I generally wouldn't, and vice-versa. And while I don't like to make blanket statements about large diverse groups of people, I do see strong similarities among those Sephardim that I'm related to through marriage and their friends:

They remind me of the Jews of the Tanach. They have strong emotions. They have strong emunas chachomim and strong emuna in general. They naturally respect the mystical over the rational and the spiritual over the tangible. For them, Tehilim is a way of life. Simplicity is synonymous with Judaism and attitudes and values express that constantly. Where Ashkenazim seem to be more concerned with hypocrisy or consistency, Sefardim seem to be more spontaneous, concerned with the moment or the isolated issue – so, for example, it seems to me that an Ashkenazi who perceives a certain practice to represent a higher level than the station he's currently on, is unlikely do it, while Sefardim seem to feel that if the specific matter is something they are inspired to do, than why not do it?

In Hebrew there isn't really a word for half-measures. Hebrew has a word for "Love" and a word for "Hate," but how often do we see a word that expresses "liking" or any mid-range emotion? So, too, they tend to express emotions strongly and more openly than I've generally seen among Ashkenazim, and they can display completely opposite types of behavior (sometimes at the same time). They speak to G-d in personal term – they get mad at him, they love him. They're less guarded, less consistent, less calculated and less worried about ramifications, but it's so much more real.

So the question is: What happens if we mix two cultures? What if we take two individual people – who are different enough to begin with – and start adding to the differences? At what point do the two of them get too far apart to successfully bridge the gaps? What gaps make a relationship more interesting and alive, and what gaps break down successful communication and ability to understand and relate? It's easy to say, "We're all Jews! Don't look at the differences!" When building a family we need to conscious of additional strain on a relationship; it needs to be looked at on a case by case basis. There isn't anything wrong or right about each culture, but there are real differences ; that seems to make sense. However, there is much more to the equation then Ashkenazi or Sephardi: As an American, out-of-town kid, with my specific background and personality, I actually think I have more in common with my Israeli, Sephardi, out-of-town, Lubavitcher wife than I would have had with many an Ashkenazi from Boro-Park or Williamsburg – even though I may have peyos and wear a streimel. So, for this Ashkenzai married to a Sephardi, I wouldn't want it any other way.

Yomim Noraim Camaign - Eizer L'Shabbos


With the arrival of the month of Elul, we are beginning to take stock of our actions during the past year. Elul is a month when we are especially in need of Hashem's compassion since on Rosh Hashana He will decide what type of year we will merit. In Likutey Moharan I, 119, Rebbe Nachman of Breslov taught:

"When a person is in special need of Hashem's love, Hashem sends him the opportunity to show love to someone else. This is what makes it possible for Hashem's love to be channeled to the person himself."

I hope you will consider this posting to be that opportunity. Chana Besser's new book "Faith Under Fire" mentioned the important role that Eizer L'Shabbos played in helping needy people of Tsfat at the height of last year's war and Katyusha rocket attacks in Tsfat. Now that the war is over, the donations are not coming in on as frequent a basis, yet the need for your chesed still remains a constant. Eizer L'Shabbos continues to distribute food packages Shabbos after Shabbos; never saying no to a family with small children and an empty refrigerator.

Please consider donating $300 for all of a needy family's Shabbos and Yom Tov meals from Rosh Hashana through Simchas Torah.

For $2,600 you can sponsor the Shabbos meals of a small family or an entire year, and for $5,200 you can sponsor all the Shabbos meals for large family for an entire year.

If you cannot give even $18, I would like to ask you to at least daven that Rabbi Binyomin Rosenberg (HaRav Binyomin ben Malla) be successful to raise funds so that the needy families in Tsfat will have proper necessities during festive month of Tishrei.

Tax-deductible donations for the Yomim Noraim campaign can be sent to:

Eizer L'Shabbos
5014 16th Avenue, Suite 319
Brooklyn, NY 11204


To donate by credit card, please call 917-499-7760

Time Management

The key to true time management is awareness. Time is not an entity of our own making, but our experience of time and the specific constraints it places on our lives are often the constructs of our minds. The more consciously aware we are, the less we experience the oppressive control of time.

(Rabbi Moshe Mykoff)

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Black & White Picture Of The Week - Dogwood In July

Friday, August 10, 2007

Question & Answer With Dixie Yid - The Two Who Truly Know You

(Picture courtesy of antique-microscopes.com)

A Simple Jew asks:

The Chidushei HaRim once told one of his chassidim, "There are only two who truly know you: Hashem and your wife." After you asked your wife whether all the Torah you learned over the past year had contributed into making you into a better person, or whether he had just remained the same, what did she reply? In what areas did she note that you excelled and in which areas did she note that you needed improvement?

Dixie Yid answers:

I asked my wife this question and it started a serious conversation. Her response was to say that she marked her impressions of me from the time we moved into our current neighborhood, about 3 years ago. She said that, on the positive side, she felt proud that I had become more disciplined, in that I was (almost always) getting up at 4 AM for my regular sedorim of learning before davening and going off to work. Also, she was happy that I was improving in things that I had previously become lax in like attending mincha and ma'ariv with a minyan regularly. She was happy that I was taking other steps one-by-one like doing the bedside neigel vassar and saying Krias Shema al Hamita with hamapil. She thought that I had become better at helping her and the kids and that I did virtually nothing for myself, but rather herself and the kids.

On the other hand, she could only come up with one point in which she felt I had gotten worse. And that is that she felt that I had gotten more impatient and was losing my temper more easily with the children, though she was not sure this was not partially due to my recent efforts at repairing my previous laxness in discipline with the children. She has complained recently that I leave virtually all of the discipline to her, making her out to the be bad guy... But that's another story.

This was basically the substance of our conversation in response to A Simple Jew's question. And all of that leads me to one inescapable conclusion. I have difficulty in believing the truth of the Chiddushei HaRim's statement as it applies to me! Perhaps with certain types of bad midos and behaviors, it may be true that the natural victim who takes the brunt of those things, or who sees you in the privacy of your own home, is the wife. And I heard it told over that at the levaya of Rav Avraham Yitzchak Hakohen Kook, z"tl, his widow cried out, "Guf Kadosh! Guf Kadosh!" Certainly no one could have known of that Tzadik's personal Kedusha more than his own wife, which she testified to with her heartfelt cries. However, I don't think that this applies to all types of faults.

"לֵב--יוֹדֵעַ, מָרַּת נַפְשׁוֹ" (Mishlei 14:10) Paraphrasing: Only a person's own heart knows the bitterness of his soul. Only I know about the fact that I have virtually no self-control when it comes to ta'avos. To give a benign example or two, if I'm shopping and I want a soda when leaving the grocery store because they cleverly place them right there as you're going into the checkout line, I buy one regardless of whether I need a drink or not, simply because I want one. Another example: If I think of something that I would like to know, I instantly look it up online, even at work without waiting for my lunch break. Also, my wife does not know the extent of my laziness and other bad traits. The point is that I don't think the Chiddushei HaRim's statements applies to all kinds of faults.

Therefore, in my very humble opinion, I think one should not allow his wife's good opinion of him to lull him into a feeling of complacency about his spiritual standing!

Erev Shabbos Links


Zchus Avos Yogen Aleinu: Beard,Beard, Where Was Your Jew?

Mystical Paths: Protesting Hebron

More Afraid

I am very much afraid of a Cossack, and especially if he is carrying a gun, and I am much more afraid when I see a band of Cossacks. But none of that begins to equal my fear that I may accidentally in any way violate a rabbinic law.

(Rabbi Baruch of Mezhibuz)

Thursday, August 09, 2007

Rebbe Nachman Of Breslov On Clothing

(Picture courtesy of USHMM.org)


A Yid commenting on Imposing A Dress Code:

When questioned on this subject, Reb Elozer Kenig answered that a Chassidisher levush is a holy and important component of the Rebbe's derech. Some people from a more modern background who are attracted to Breslov may hesitate to change their style of dress. This hesitation should not be an obstacle. One need not wear a long black jacket to study the Rebbe’s teachings and follow his guidance in ‘avodas HaShem. However, even if one is not ready to make such external changes at present, one may aspire to wear a Chassidisher levush. In any case, one should respect the traditional Jewish manner of dress.

Here are some quotes from the Breslover minhogim project on this subject (reference to Chayey Moharan isn't done properly according to sections, and uses "through" numbering):

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The Rebbe cautioned his followers not to wear unclean, torn, or shabby clothes. Rather, a G-d-fearing person should wear clean and respectable clothing, according to his ability.

(Chayei Moharan 201)

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The Rebbe praised the Chassidim for preserving the traditional Jewish style of dress and appearance, and for keeping distant from chokhmos chitzoniyos.

(Chayei Moharan 421)

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Reb Noson discusses the mystical meaning of the centuries-old Jewish custom to fasten one’s shirts and jackets so that the right side is on top of the left side. This indicates the dominance of midas ha-chesed over midas ha-din. Chassidim are particular to use such garments, as opposed to those worn in the secular world, which fasten left over right.

(See Likkutei Halakhos, Hilchos Hashkomas ha-Boker 1:10)

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The Rebbe once remarked that there is a connection between the fact that Jews in Germany in his day already wore short jackets in the modern, western European manner, and that the Zohar was not commonly available there.

(Chayei Moharan 422)

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The Rebbe delivered awesome mystical teachings about the beard and peyos. He also related the removal of the beard to assimilation and religious decline.

(E.g. see Likkutei Moharan I, 20; Chayei Moharan 51, 86; et al.)

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Reb Noson expounds at length upon the mystical meaning of the beard and peyos, which he relates to the Patriarchs Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov, and the right, left, and middle columns in the array of the sefiros. He points out that these are not only symbols, but also channels for spiritual illumination.

(Likkutei Halakhos, Gilu’ach 1, 3, et passim)

The Paintings Of Esther Zibell

More of Esther Zibell's artwork can be seen here.

Imposing A Dress Code

(Picture courtesy of imu.edu.my)

A Talmid commenting on Becoming A Breslover Chassid:

I asked Rabbi Chaim Kramer (son-in-law of Rabbi Tvzi Aryeh Rosenfeld) of the Breslov Research Center, Breslov.org , who is a baki in all of Torah besides of course Breslov seforim, regarding the issue of short/long jackets and shaving the beard as has been discussed recently. The following is his reply:

Where does Rebbe Nachman teach about wearing long coats? The only place I know of is in a note by Rabbi Kaplan o"h in the book Rabbi Nachman's Stories in the second story. It is a reference to the German Enlightenment of that time. So don't take it to heart. There does NOT exist a dress code in Breslov. Only those who want to impose their view upon others have a dress code. I too wear a short jacket.

Shaving the beard. In halakhah it's permitted (done in a permitted way). In Kabbalah it's a very important thing to have a beard.

Best wishes,

Chaim Kramer

A Kever In Tlust

Sarah: The Baal Shem Tov's mother

Excerpt from Tovste.info:

Rabbi Israel ben Eliezer chose to settle in Tluste, around 1734, and to reveal himself there as the Ba'al Shem Tov. His connection to Tluste is confirmed by various sources: two of the rare surviving letters signed by the Besht indicate that Tluste was his home or place of origin; there are two references to Tluste in the tales of his life and deeds, depicted in Shivei Ha-Besht: In Praise of the Baal Shem Tov; and his mother is buried in Tluste’s Jewish cemetery, where her tombstone could be found until the time of World War II.

Question:

Does anyone know where the Baal Shem Tov's daugter Adel is buried?

Thursday Links

(Picture by Philippe Bouasse)

Dixie Yid: All 22 Letters of the Alef Beis Are Found in the Mogen Dovid

Breslov World: Seekers are Finders

Shiloh Musings: Photos of Hebron Destruction from Yoni Gormezano

Wayne Scheer: On Writing and Writhing

Hebrewbooks.org: הגהות על ש"ע הלכות פסח

Against You

If your eye is evil against your poor brother, not only will you not help him. but you will seek reasons to justify why he does not deserve to be helped. "He will cry out to Hashem against you" - if that is the case, in Heaven your actions will be investigated as well, "and it will be a sin by you" - and all your sins will be remembered as well.

(Rebbe Shmelke of Nikolsburg)

Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Question & Answer With A Yid - Becoming A Breslover Chassid


A Simple Jew asks:

What was it about the teachings of Rebbe Nachman that inspired you become a Breslover chassid?

A Yid answers:

Essentially, I was looking for Chassidus that wasn't only externally presenting Chassidic values, but actually possessed the inner essence of what Chassidus is all about. That's eventually what seriously brought me to Breslov. (We already had several discussions about the light of Chasidus and problems of concealment. All this is related to this issue). However the conscious realizition of this happened when I analyzed it more. Originally I was attracted to Breslov through Sippurei Maasios (may be it sounds funny, but it is so) and it's mystical feeling. I wasn't comfortable with Chabad (not the teachings, but the system itself today), and Breslov was a way to go.

A Simple Jew responds:

What were the first steps you took to become a Breslover chassid after you read Sippurei Maasios?

A Yid responds:

I tried to find contacts with Breslover Chassidim around, because one obviously needs teachers. It took quite a long time though to get to know some people and to find serious teachers who could help me with making a start in learning Breslover sforim and getting into Breslover mesoyro. I also tried to use the common values of Chassidim and apply them to everyday life. I understood that one has to learn the core teachings of the Baal Shem Tov, since all Chassidus came out of him. This helped me a lot especially in Breslov, because it strongly builds on Baal Shem Tov, and many things are assumed self obvious, however if one is not aware of them - he is just missing them out! (Because they aren't mentioned explicitly and often only hinted). Unlike Chabad, Breslov has a different approach of how the Chassidus itself is presented. While Chabad is a very structured system, and tends to be "the thing in itself", Breslov right a way uses a different approach. It challenges the one who starts approach it with high difficulty, often not linearly structured way of presenting teachings and requirement to know tons of other stuff to really get into it.

A Simple Jew responds:

I completely understand what you mean. With out the audio shiurim of Rabbi Nasan Maimon, learning Likutey Moharan would be extremely difficult to learn. What other seforim with the core teachings of the Baal Shem Tov do you think are essential for a person to learn to aid him learning Breslover Chassidus?

A Yid responds:

This has two components. Firstly one has to try to understand to the best of his ability at least the simple meaning and the flow of the maymor. But secondly, (as Reb Luzer Kenig once said when we discussed the way of learning Likutey Moharan, that the main thing is to penetrate and understand what the Rebbe really wants to say and to deliver to us with particular teaching).

From accounts in Chayei Moharan and other sources recorded by Reb Noson, it seems that often the Rebbe deliberately obscured his teachings - i.e. when he was presented with the written version of his maymor (which Reb Noson wrote down) he would take out some parts and etc, which obviously makes it harder to grasp, and often Reb Noson himself admits that he didn't know the exact purpose of it.

I also found, that within Breslov some stress this connection with essential teachings of the Baal Shem Tov more, some less. The mesoyro that Reb Avrohom Shternhartz ztz"l brought - strongly stresses it implicitly. This is evident even more, since his own teacher and grandfather - Reb Nachman miTcherin ztz"l wrote "Derech Chassidim" and "Loshen Chasidim" where he collected a lot of teachings of the Talmidei Baal Shem Tov and Talmidei HaMaggid. I've heard, that in Uman when a kehilo of Chassidim still existed there before the war and persecutions of the Bolsheviks didn't yet destroyed it, Russian Breslovers (even bochurim) had special sdorim to learn Talmidei Baal Shem Tov and Talmidei HaMaggid. When I asked Reb Luzer what sforim in particular should I choose for that, he was reluctant to specify any set "program". It was understood, that one has to pave his own path for this matter that fits best with one's needs. He just mentioned, that there are a lot of sforim for that, for example mentioned in "Derech Chassidim" and "Loshen Chassidim".

I have personally found very useful "Sefer Baal Shem Tov al HaTorah" as a reference on multiple teachings of the Baal Shem Tov (however when learning it one has try to refer to sources, because it often takes quotes out of context leaving the reader to research the rest himself). From Talmidei Baal Shem Tov and the Maggid and other early sforim I found very useful and essential - "Meor Eynaim" (Chernobyl), "Imrei Pinchas" (Koretz), "Tshuos Chein" (Linitz), "Tanya" (and many othermaymorim of Baal HaTanya), "Ohr HaMeir" (Zhitomir), "Pri Ha'aretz" (Vitebsk), "Kedushas Levi" (Berdichev), "Chessed leAvrohom" (Reb Avrohom haMalach) and other sforim. I also discovered such later sforim like "Toldos Aharon" (Reb Aharon miZhitomir ztz"l the talmid of Kedushas Levi), "She'eris Yisroel" (Reb Yisroel Dov Ber miVilednik ztz"l) which discuss many essential subjects.

Another gem is the more recent "Chovas HaTalmidim" from Piaceszner Rebbe. Written in recent times, it explains many core Chassidic ideas in a beautiful way. His other sforim like "Bnei Machshava Tova" and "Mevo Shearim" are also very notable.

But again - one has to find his own way in the waters of Chassidus. One "clicks" more with some sefer, other with another one.

"Only Ugliness And Impurity"


Yossele Kvetch commenting on Rebbe Nachman & Don Ross:

There have been "real ehrlicher Yidden" who listened to classical, folk, and other secular music forms. There are teshuvos and other rabbinic discussions about this, and basically there is no issur if the music doesn't have provocative lyrics or isn't inherently connected to avodah zara in the mind of the listener. The rest is all a matter of kedushah.

Music like all art is not just a spiritual medium, but a form of emotional and intellectual expression. Therefore, we have something to learn from all people, Jewish and non-Jewish, within the bounds of halachah.

With all due respect, our medieval paytanim were awesome tzaddikim, but they were not as great writers as William Blake or Dylan Thomas or Robert Frost, and not too many frum instrumentalists compare to Leo Kottke or John Coltrane or Andres Segovia or Pablo Casals...

Says Rav Kook [Mishnato shel HaRav Kook]:

"It is a mean eye that causes one to see only ugliness and impurity in everything beyond the bounds of Israel, the unique nation. This is one of the most awful, debased forms of darkness. It damages the entire edifice of spiritual virtue, the light of which every spiritual soul seeks."

Chokhmah ba-umos taamin!"

PS: The fact that Modzitzer niggunim sound like European classical music from the turn of the last century, Chabad niggunim sound like Russian folk songs, Viznitzer niggunim sound like gypsy songs, and so much Sefardic music sounds like Arabic and other non-Jewish middle eastern musics can't be a coincidence. We heard this stuff and adapted certain parts of it to our music -- just as Jewish music, in turn, influenced that of the people with whom we lived. There has always been a certain amount of cultural cross-pollination, and that isn't necessarily a bad thing.

The main question is whether or not we are "elevating" our influences by having the right intentions, or whether we are loosing touch with our own spiritual roots and aspirations.

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Speaking Directly

Philosophical works may contain deep concepts, but they will always remain outside the soul. Chassidic works, however, speak directly to the soul, and will lead you to the goal of the Torah.

(Rabbi Menachem Ekstein)

Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Tuesday Evening Links

Mentalblog: hevron of the forefathers

Lazer Beams: Heck No, We Won't Go

Question & Answer With Yossele Kvetch - Rebbe Nachman & Don Ross



A Simple Jew asks:

The above video clip comes from guitarist Don Ross. Sony Music notes:

"Don Ross has emerged as one of the most respected musicians in Canada and one of the top guitarists in the world. In September 1996, he managed to do what no other player has done: win the prestigious U.S. National Fingerstyle Guitar Championship for the second time (he first won in 1988). The competition, held yearly in Winfield, Kansas, cannot be won only with immaculate technique, but the player's music must also display a high degree of emotion and intensity: hallmarks of Don's style."

I too use to play guitar from my elementary school years until my freshman year in college and thus have an tremendous appreciation for the musicianship exhibited by Don Ross. While in the past my music tastes included blues, R&B, heavy metal, and rap, since Pesach I have listened exclusively to Jewish music.

In Likutey Moharan I, 3, Rebbe Nachman of Breslov taught:

A holy melody gives strength to the forces of holiness. But the music of the sitra achra, the other side, damages these forces and lengthens the exile. It makes people stumble and traps them like birds in a snare. Be very careful never to listen to this kind of music at all. The musicians and singers who produce it have no religious intentions whatsoever. On the contrary, they only want to make money or become famous. Listening to this kind of music can seriously weaken your devotion to G-d. But the melodies played by a truly religious, G-d-fearing musician can be very inspiring. They can strengthen your devotion immensely

Is Rebbe Nachman advising me that it would be better not to listen to Don Ross? Although I can certainly imagine that chassidim would have problems with heavy metal, Don Ross's instrumental guitar music seems a little less egregious and does not appear to be offensive to religious sensibilities. Is it really that different than C. Lanzbom's Strings of the Soul which is also a CD of instrumental guitar music?

Yossele Kvetch answers:

For many years I did not listen to secular music -- although I grew up in a musical home, where I played classical cello from ages 9-14, and then switched to other instruments and styles. From 1981-1998 I tried to listen to Jewish music exclusively -- despite MASSIVE frustrations -- until as a result of working as a music producer professionally, I began to slip. Jewish music seemed to be in such a dismal state of golus that I couldn't deal with it any more. Often the only thing "Jewish" about the music that is popular in our communities is the lyrics, which tend to be strings of cliches bonded to mediocre rock and roll. So I gave up. Today, I listen to all kinds of music again (mostly instrumental, b'geder halakhah: no kol ishah, no avodah zara, and nothing that brings to hirhur). I don't say that this is ideal, but it is what works best for me at this time in my life.

As for Torah Gimel (Akrukta), Reb Nachman is speaking about live music and an evil singer specifically. So maybe I can be saved on a technicality! In any case, I try to learn Torah she-bal peh every night, if only a few halakhos and / or a few mishnayos.

Fedora Black was right in his e-mail that there is an avodah of "raising up" music from unholy sources by singing such songs on Shabbos. I have seen teachings about this from both Chassidic and Sefardic Kabbalistic sources, as well as in the Breslov sefarim. There is an entry in Reb Nachman's Sefer HaMiddos, too, about conquering the klippah of a nation by singing its anthem. But this has to be balanced by the Rebbe's words about not listening to a menagen rasha in Torah Gimel, and about different kinds of avodah zara and their songs in Torah Samekh-Dalet (Bo El Paroh). He is not saying that "anything goes." So how this works is a little unclear.

In any case, we are living through the darkness before the dawn. Jewish music, which is essentially so high and so holy, being rooted in prophecy and in the avodah of the Beis HaMikdash, seems to be in a state of eclipse.

No Answer

In the World to Come I will be able to find defenses for all my sins except the sin of haughtiness. When the court Above asks me, "Why didn't you study the Torah?" I will answer, "I didn't understand the Torah for I was an unlearned man." When I am asked, "Why didn't you serve Hashem through prayer and good deeds?" I will answer, "I didn't have time because I had to work hard to keep my family alive." And if again I am asked, "Why didn't you afflict your body and engage in fasting?" I will answer, "I was weak, and these would have endangered my life." Then when the court asks, "Why didn't you give tzedakah?" I will say, "I couldn't give because I was poor." However, when the court asks me, "If you were unlearned, impoverished, and frail, why were you haughty? What was the source of your conceit? there will be no answer that question.

(Rebbe Raphael of Bershad)

Monday, August 06, 2007

Question & Answer With Bob Miller - Genealogy & Chassidus

(Picture courtesy of Jewishgen.org)

A Simple Jew asks:

What role has genealogy played in your connection to Chassidus?

Bob Miller answers:

My family's Chassidic connection took me by surprise in 1993, after I had begun to attach myself to Breslov on my own. Moishe Miller, a cousin we had never heard of, was working on a massive Miller genealogy database and contacted my father for more information. I later spoke to Moishe, too, and spent a Shabbos with him and his father (also Bob Miller!) in Flatbush. Moishe's research showed that our particular Millers were descended from an older brother of the B'nai Yissaschar ZY"A, named Avraham Abba (or Aba), who at one point took the surname Miller. Much of Moishe's work, really the tip of the iceberg, can be found here online.

Links from this web page can be followed to later generations. At any rate, our Miller family became Sanzer chassidim in the mid-1800's, living in Galicia (that is , Southern Poland) in and around Sanz (Nowy Sacz) and Gorlitz (Gorlice), and just across the Carpathian mountains in Hungary (now Slovakia). Our immediate family moved from Bardejov to the US in stages, around 1900. See the listing for Simon (Shabsi Yitzchak) Miller on on this page.

This connection was all new to me and to my father. At that point, I began learning more about the B'nai Yissaschar and about the associations of our very extended family in Eastern Europe, including Sanz, Dzikov (Yitzchak Birnbaum, a great-grandfather I'm named after), Bobov, Munkacs, Dinov, Bluzhov, etc. I'm by no means an insider, but I've learned a bit about these groups' approaches to Yiddishkeit. By the way, from a number of their writings that I have, I can see that their Rebbeim have held Rebbe Nachman of Breslov ZY"A in high regard. I'm told (by Moishe) that I have some distant Chassidic cousins in Borough Park, including the cantor Benzion Miller, but I have not met them yet.

A Simple Jew responds:

According to your understanding, what makes the approach of Sanzer Chassidus unique? Also, has the knowledge of your roots caused you to adopt any specific regional minhagim, or to begin learning Divrei Chaim?

Bob Miller responds:

The Sanzer Rav ZY"A, as I understand it, said it was time in his day to re-emphasize the ideal of high-level Torah scholarship within Chassidus and to place somewhat less emphasis on the mystical component, which was still by no means lacking.

I bought a copy of the one-volume edition of Divrei Chaim on the Torah and Moadim (published by Mishor). This edition includes a later work, Totz'os Chaim at the back that shows source references for the sefer. A subscriber list in this work includes some of my family members. I also found a more recent book, Mishnas HaDivrei Chaim al HaTorah, that clarifies some passages in the Torah commentary and provides additional source references. I could really use a detailed overview or study guide in English, but very little Sanzer material other than biographical/historical seems to exist in English.

I've also bought a number of works by and about the Rav and his descendants, the Rebbeim of Shinova, Gorlitz, Klausenburg, Bobov, Stropkov, etc., including the Klausenburger Rebbe ZY"A's recently published lectures on the weekly Parsha. Again here, there is very little published material, original or in translation, in English.

I really enjoy the Ropshitz /Sanz/ Dzikov/Bobov nigunim, which frequently pop into my head. I use the well-known Ropshitzer nigun for the zemer Menucha v'Simcha. We have also donated from time to time to Sanz-associated causes in Israel like Sanz Laniado Hospital and Kollel Chibas Yerushalayim.

Monday Links

(Picture courtesy of israelnationalnews.com)

Mystical Paths: What Good?

The Muqata: Elite Commandos Refuse to Evict Hevron Jews

Bintel Blog: Rebuilding the Temple — in Wellesley, Mass.

The Vacated Space

Herein lies the secret of the vacated space. G-d’s light was everywhere, yet He carved out a "vacated space" to make "room" for creation. So too we must "make room" for a "good creation" in our heart, into which G-dliness can enter and dwell. This we accomplish through thinking good thoughts, bringing about a good creation—a higher and better level of consciousness. Then we can merit an even greater revelation of G-dliness. In fact, when we turn our hearts into a vacated space to receive G-dliness, then simply by thinking good thoughts we have formed a new creation.

(Rabbi Chaim Kramer)

Sunday, August 05, 2007

Black & White Picture Of The Week - Jumping Off Hay

Friday, August 03, 2007

Entering The Heart And Brain

(Picture by Sara Verstynen)

Translation of an excerpt from Degel Machaneh Ephraim, Parshas Ekev (via Israel613.com):

The Baal Shem Tov related that people of a certain country sent a letter to the Rambam, asking him to prove to them from the Torah that the dead will come to life. The proofs mentioned in the Gemara were not sufficient for them, since they felt that all the verses quoted by the Gemara could be explained otherwise.

The Rambam refused to reply to them, but delegated the task to his disciple, Rabbi Shmuel ibn Tibbon. The latter wrote as follows: According to science, all food and drink are converted to blood. From the blood, it goes into the liver, and from the liver, the purest goes into the heart. From the heart, the best and most refined blood enters the brain, the seat of a person's intellect and life. One who is cautious in the field of forbidden foods, is assured that his blood will be pure and clear, and he will have a pure heart. His brain will be pure enough to attain a pure spirit of life, which is the divinity of all the worlds, which keeps them all in existence. The more one watches himself and sanctifies his eating habits according to G-d's Torah, the more his intellect sanctifies all his two hundred forty-eight limbs.

Likewise, if one is lax in this respect, his intellect becomes defiled and is regarded as dead, which is the highest degree of uncleanness. Thus the holy spirit of all the worlds leaves him, leaving him vulnerable to all sorts of false doctrines and ideas. Therefore, the rabbis of the Talmud were extremely conscientious in their observance of these laws, so as not to defile themselves with food and wine of Gentiles. Consequently, their intellect was brilliant, the holy spirit of the Almighty rested upon them, to enable them and to explain every hidden meaning of the holy Torah. Since He and His Torah are one, a Divine power rested upon them and the light of their souls joined these two components to form a three stranded cord, which will never be torn.

These people, however, are surely unclean. Consequently, their blood is unclean, and their hearts and brains have become clogged by dint of the forbidden and unclean foods. They, therefore, are inclined to believe in apikorsus, denial of the Torah teachings, and have been unable to accept the sweetness and pleasantness of our Sages' words, built on their Divine intellect. Since they have become brazen and have left the faith, the destroyer will come upon them and will destroy them and theirs.

Not long afterwards, a powerful king invaded their country and put them to death, scattering all their belongings.

Mazel Tov To My Friend!

(Picture by Jill Stevens)

Announcing a Brand New Baby Dixie Yid!

Erev Shabbos Links

(Painting by Chaim Goldberg)

Tsfat Momentum Studios: Reb Elazer Kenig on Rosh Chodesh Av

Breslev.org: הכנה לגאולה

Modern Uberdox: The power in your hands

Bagel Blogger: JPix 13

Mystical Paths: The Only Doctor - HKB'H

On eBay - A Wallet Made From A Sefer Torah


BS"D Antiquarian:

"Here is an original very sad remembrance of the horrors and tragedy of the Jewish nation in the Holocaust.

This parchment had been cut out of a Torah scroll before the Nazis burned it in a synagogue and folded into a wallet. It measures 20 x 16 cm. and has two pockets. "

Depths Of Existence

The true talent of a visual artist, when he is at the peak of his abilities – and especially one whose talent has been sanctified by the Spirit of G-d – is to be able to see the depths of existence, both in their physical and spiritual dimensions.

(Rabbi Avraham Yitzhak HaKohen Kook)

Thursday, August 02, 2007

Steven Spielberg's Family From Sudilkov


Reitzel bat R' Shmuel Spielberg - Steven Spielberg's aunt?
(Jewish cemetery in Sudilkov, Ukraine)

Excerpt from Steven Spielberg: A Biography:

Steven's grandfather Shmuel Spielberg, who in America would change his name to Samuel, was born in 1873 in Kamnetz-Podolsk, Russia. Samuel (Shmuel) Spielberg's wife Rebbeca Chechik "Grandma Becky" to Steven's generation was the daughter of Nachman Morduhov Chechik and Reitzl Nigonova Hendler, who had eight other children. The Chechiks had a brewery in Sudilkov, a shtetl that no longer exists. Sudilkov was in the Kamnetz area, near the larger town of Shepetovka, where some other family members lived. Arnold Spielberg relates that his grandfather Nachman Chechik "prayed and studied the Torah. His wife ran the brewery business. She was a shrewd woman. She and the children ran the business. My uncle Herschel, the oldest son, was the brewmaster. In those days, the old Jewish men, if they could get out of business and study the Torah, that's what they did."

The Photograph

Losing An Argument

Don't regret losing an argument with a wise man; you already gained knowledge from the interaction.

(Rabbi Yehudah HaChassid)

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

Take The Tape Out Of His Back

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When a person tells me a Chassidic story, I often recall a posting from Tzemach Atlas about why he dislikes Jewish stories. In the posting, Tzemach wrote,

"Let's talk about the legends of your past week. I want to listen to what happened to you not some broken telephone feel good honeydew dude in Podolia. I feel that the stories that were intended to open us up to the miraculous possibilities turned into tired clichés that clog up and severe the possibilities of us relating to one another."

While unlike Tzemach, I think there is certainly an exalted place for Chassidic stories, I do agree with him about the manner in which they are often told. Namely, they are frequently used a replacement for sharing something personal. When a person merely resorts to telling a Chassidic story from his limited repertoire in such an impersonal manner the listener becomes an acoustic reflector and walks away as if he hasn't heard anything at all.

Rav Moshe Weinberger once remarked that a person should not just simply listen to a Chassidic story and think to himself that it was a nice story. Rather, he should contemplate what specific message he could derive from the story and how this message has practical application in his life.

In order for a Chassidic story to make a real impact on another person, the person telling it must explain how he applied the story's message to a difficult or problematic situation in his life and how it helped him. When the story teller does not do this he becomes no more than a human Teddy Ruxpin doll, lifelessly communicating a pre-recorded message.

I want a story teller to take the tape out of his back. I want them to tell me how a 200 year-old story about the Baal Shem Tov helped them deal with a difficult person, how he may have failed to live up to the message contained in a story about Rebbe Levi Yitzchok of Berditchev, or how Rebbe Zusia of Anapol's advice about being an individual helped him overcome groupthink in 2007.

Unlike Tzemach, I want to hear about Podolia. But, I also want to hear how the story from Podolia transformed the story teller.

Bikur Cholim

The essence of the mitzvah to visit the sick is to determine the needs of the patient to see what has to be done for him, and to make him comfortable with his friends. You must also bear in mind to pray for mercy on his behalf. If you visited him and did not pray for his recovery, you have not fulfilled the mitzvah.

(Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 193:3)